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thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 17:50

Sorry about the namechange, but need to keep this confidential.
Dh received a letter from the Practice Manager at our GP surgery yesterday, telling him he had been removed from the patient list because he had sworn at a member of staff and had been rude over a period of time.
I am so angry at their treatment of him and need to vent. He is understandably v upset as he has been registered with the practice for over 10 years, the doctors there are generally good and appointments are reasonably easy to get; important to him as he has type 1 diabetes.
About 2 weeks ago, he had to go to the surgery for a blood test. he got there 15 minutes early, but there was a massive queue as some delayed flu jabs had turned up and about 50 people had swarmed to the surgery to get one. Because of the queue, when he finally got to check in at reception, he was checked in 5 minutes late on the system. He was then kept waiting for an hour before being called for his blood test. During that time, he was sent up and down stairs in the surgery about 6 or 7 times, because they couldn't work out which room he should go to for his test (there was chaos because of all the people who had turned up for flu jabs).
He didn't expect to have to take this exercise and started to feel very ill with a bad hypo (it was also v hot in there because of all the people). He knew he was going to collapse if he didn't eat something sugary, so had to eat some of his emergency sweets to try to restore his blood sugar levels.
He was finally sent in to the correct room. he asked why he had been kept waiting for so long and was told he had been made to wait because he turned up 5 mins late for his appointment!!!!!The phlebotomist (sp?) then said, "this is a fasting blood sugar test, have you eaten anything since last night?"
Dh, realised he had had to eat the small amount of sugar and said, "Oh, f*ck". He was in a real state, and after all this was told to go away because the test could not be done.
This is the reason he has been "dismissed".
I asked what other incidents have happened and he said he can't think of anything except that the reception staff have been constantly difficult with him about repeat prescriptions. He needs a fair amount of stuff because of his diabetes. The surgery were aware that he had to change his insulin regime in the last few months, requiring many more blood testing strips than previously prescribed. He explained this and said it was very important he had the additional amount quickly. The surgery has a big sign telling patients that they can have repeat prescriptions (amended for quantity if necessary) within 2 days. When dh asked for this to be done. he was told it was a "privilege, not a right" and they were not duty bound to do this. The poor man was simply trying to get the prescription he needed within the guidelines the surgery had stated. if he doesn't do his blood tests regularly, he is in serious trouble.
I don't understand why he is being treated like this, I am so upset for him. he doesn't need the additional stress at the moment, his Mum died recently very unexpectedly.
he has written a long letter to his GP (bypassing the Practice Manager), explaining how he was treated.
I really do feel as though he has been treated very badly indeed .

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PeachyClair · 10/11/2005 19:06

Surely they should be aware that someone nearing a hypo is likely to be narky and on edge? having been there (tho not diabetic), I am told that I came over as quite aggressive.

Sympathy for your dh, but perhaps a change would be positive?

thisisunfair · 10/11/2005 20:34

Thanks for all your helpful messages so far.

I think that it might be a good idea to seek another practice. This one seems to have no understanding whatsoever of his needs. The reception staff tried to argue with him that he was not entitled to a flu jab even - this is essential for people with diabetes as they have a compromised immune system. The problem is not with the doctors, it's the other staff.

We do feel though, that he should be reinstated on the list and he can then look for another gp from this point.

The touch screen system sounds brilliant - all this could have been avoided if he was able to bypass the dragons at the desk. They all know he's diabetic. He has collapsed in the waiting room before (very serious diabetic complications) and was rushed to hospital in an ambulance, so you would think they had some understanding of the difficulties diabetics face day to day.

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thisisunfair · 11/11/2005 09:43

Any thoughts on this approach?

We're worried that if we just leave things as they are he won't get onto a decent surgery's list - "Why did you leave your last doctor's?"

"They got rid of me for being rude" doesn't lend itself to getting on the list of a decent practice.

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Donbean · 11/11/2005 09:58

It is zero tolerance, and that means zero tolerance nowadays TBH TIU.
That includes swearing or any behaviour that can be seen as intimidating to staff.(If staff interpret it this way)
To look at it this way, if the phlebotamist had said to any one "oh fu** look at all the flu jab people" they would have been dismissed as this is unnacceptable.
I realise that you are upset and annoyed by this and think that you did the right thing by contacting the GP.

Donbean · 11/11/2005 10:10

"stupid man" Defo complain defo because that is disgusting and inexcusable.

thisisunfair · 11/11/2005 15:54

The latest in this fiasco is..........

Dh is about to run out of essential medication, so he tried to find a walk-in surgery where he could see a gp. nearest one is off Tottenham Court Road in Central London. Nowhere near us, but he drove there.

The walk in surgery said they could not treat dh or prescribe drugs as his ex surgery have not informed the primary care trust that he has been dismissed from the list. Dh told to return to his local surgery and tell them that they have to treat him by law.

Dh comes back, goes into surgery and tells them what the surgery in central London said. Staff in there didn't have a clue what he was on about.

The "Practice Manager has gone on holiday for over 2 weeks, having sent dh a letter striking him off their list without informing the PCT or even consulting his or any of the GP's in the practice! There were no meetings or discussions with ANYONE!

Dh's gp had however, just received dh's letter of complaint and has told him to come and see him this afternoon.

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crunchie · 11/11/2005 16:45

Well sounds like this women is a loon and has overstepped the mark. Hopefully the GP will be able to sort it out and help your dh

PeachyClair · 11/11/2005 17:25

What happened TIU?

thisisunfair · 11/11/2005 17:43

Dh just back from seeing his gp at the surgery.

Gp said we have never removed anyone from our list and do not intend to begin now. The Practice Manager did not have the authority to do this and in her absence there will be a practice meeting next week where they will discuss dh's letter of complaint.

He's extremely relieved to have had a sensible conversation and gp apologised for the stress this has caused over the last few days (dh's blood sugar levels have been all over the place), plus gp sorted out all the problems with dh's repeat prescriptions.

The moral of this story?

Beware of "Practice Managers" who are no such thing.

Thanks everyone for listening to me sound off, so glad it's sorted.

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CarolinaMoon · 11/11/2005 17:46

glad to hear it's all sorted TIU

sunchowder · 11/11/2005 17:48

Oh God, so relieved for you that this has worked out, the last thing that you needed when he is not feeling well to begin with. Good for you both then.

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