Rambling that sounds very wise...just doing a few things now may nip it in the bud (so to speak!) - it seems from all the reading I've done that it's those that just ignore it that tend to have more dramatic problems.
When I first cut out caffeine I bought loads of caffeine free teas and coffees...only to discover they cause just as many problems. Supposedly 'safe' hot drinks are peppermint tea and chamomile. I'm actually getting quite a taste for peppermint tea (something I thought I'd never say!). And if you can stretch to mineral water try and stick to evian (apparentely that's the best one). If not a water filter will help.
I very much feel that anxiety is the key for me in this too...although I have had quite a few gyne issues which probably made me more vulnerable to things like this. You get just as many results if you google 'urinary frequency/anxiety' as 'urinary frequency/ic' so they are very intertwined by all accounts. And by far my worst symptoms are when I torture myself by reading the forums for IC sufferers. They literally spiralled me into panic and despair...really badly!
I've stopped doing that in the last few days and only allowed myself in the safe zone of MN!
Gailforce...L&S is the expert here - I'm just about to see Deborah from her & others recommendation (on Friday) so I'll report back. Sorry you are going through so much - but we are learning that there are loads of things that can be done to soothe/heal this sort of thing so do stay here and we'll learn together (does that sounds bit hippy dippy!). I'm like Rambling...I don't have any pain (I did have a sort of 'pressure' thing though) but then I've only had symptoms for about a month. Even if I haven't got IC - I've had 4 rounds of antibiotics in just 4 weeks...so I want to blast that out of my system at the very least.
L&S - I was just about to come and post about the washing thing. I've started reading the Angela Kilmartin book and she is OBSESSED with washing! Obviously I used to wash before (!) but not after every loo break. Now I do. And if I'm at work I just wet a bit of loo paper with cool water to take to the loo with me as obviously it's not practical to do a full wash in the communal loos!!!!
That is also part of her 'trick' for avoiding flares after sex. She suggests drinking water 20 mins or so before...loo just before then wash...then straight after loo plus wash plus lots of drinking water.
I'm also ensuring I only use simple soap.
I've take another dose of dmannose...so far so good. Certainly not causing any bad effects.
I love the bath you've described. I'd been too scared to take a bath at the worst of it but in desperation took a hot bath with nothing in it (no fragrance stuff or anything) and it made such a difference...so I shall upgrade with all those lovely additions! When you say baking soda is that the same as Bicarb?
Blimey I do blabber on. I hope everyone is having good days today and that loo breaks are few and far between!