t the end of the tunnel - it's LIGHTER

[BitterAndTwistedChoreDodger]

Welcome to our third thread of chat and healthy eating.

I'm Bitter and still have a few pounds to lose because i do too much of the former and not enough of the latter!

Morning, tis me, Mouseface!!

Have you missed me? [desperate emoticon]

Bitter - have fb'd you re JK assuming it's the same one. I'm guessing so that's why it's on fb.

Double - I love your dog. I have told MrM that we are having one like that. Eventually!

SAF - morning, how was sleeping last night?

Mittz - how are you feeling?

Alice - sorry that you are still around but in a really nice way!!!!

DS did not sleeping again. I hope it's a phase. I look like 'death warmed up' as my nan would say!!!!

I have the most horrid, bitching period pains too!! OUCH!! Am I coming out in symphathy with you Alice?

I need toast and coffee and pain killers and rest. Which of those do you think will happen?

Day 12!!!! Feck!! It's nrealy two weeks and I feel bloody brilliant. Apart from the period pains.

Right, off to shower then goodbye hair!

You are fiesty this morning double - I like it!

Now I will have to have bacon sandwiches for lunch!!! Never mind.

I would love to have a duvet day. All snuggled up with Double and SAF!!

And we could wait for Bitter and her new, sexy Bitterbob to arrive with Crinchies!! , have a duvet and dvd day.

Bliss. One can dream!!!

Double - I would be there in a shot if I could today. I feel that way out!!! Do you have any Nescafe Blend 37? That's my favourite!!

I'll bring my rasberry leaf tea

Double - i wish you would make your mind up when i am having this baby!

Meh, not bothered by that. DD was due on 13th (born 14th) we live at no 13, so really doesn't bother me. More worried about hospital staff being silly about it tbh!

Not good SAF 13 is good though

My mum irritated me a bit this morning. She had offered to come up today. Really appreciated the offer as she has only been here once in the 5yrs i have lived here, but really doubted i would take her up on offer, just nice that she did iyswim?

Anyway, she now can't come (really fine about that) because some kids on her estate have been taken into care and my brother is totally heartbroken (he is 8)as they are his friends and he remembers being taken into care (aged 2, SS had him stay with his gran for a week) Such bollocks! My mum just doesn't want to miss the action! She said "They wouldn't let me take the kids in" er yeah, i wouldn't either!

SAF - cripes!! Sounds like my XP wanting stuff back. He was the same. DD's toys, my clothes, gifts etc.

Come Outside is on CBeebies, that'll cheer you up!!

Alice - sorry you are fed up. I know what you mean about the staff being weird about the date! They were like that with my friend's DS. He is April 2nd, but she was in labour April 1st. MW kept saying for her to hang on til past midnight, she didn't want a baby born on April Fool's Day.

It's miserable here. All grey and gloomy.

SAF - that's awful. How shit and unfair of your sister to do that. She was/is clearly blinkered by this guy. He sounds very controlling. And as you say, if the shoe was on the other foot, she'd go mad.

Poor DS! How sad for him. It seems like this guy may buy affection too? Is that a fair thinkg to say? Sorry if not. He strikes me as someone not to be trusted, although I know nothing about the man. I get the feeling that he is unstable too. A bit up and down, hot and cold, wants her then doesn't.......

You are right to make boundaries for you DS as it is YOU that is his constent, not anyone else. And yes, where does keeping your mouth shut get you? Voice your concerns and follow your gut instincts where DS is involved. Don't supress them for fear of upsetting someone.

Sorry. Rant over.

I'm back.

OOOOOooooooo!!!! Goodie!!!!!

What is your hair like?!!!!!

Sorry Saf, I missed your drama. Di you say your sis is phoning the police?

SAF - no, not at all, I get what you mean. Like if she likes him, you all have to like him. If she spends time with him, he has to be included in family events and spend time with your dad. If DS is there with her, and this person wants to be too, she has no issue with this.

I think......? It's like she wants you all to except the person she has in her life. Like without someone, she doesn't feel complete? And with your 'blessing' as such, that makes it all the more real?

Ignore me if I am waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay off!!!