Sun nor rain can stop the march of the SHINEY cult!

[LollipopViolet]

So, our 1,000,000,000 and who knows what thread!

All diet and exercise plans welcome, let's support each other and talk about sex healthy eating!

So, to recap, I'm LV, and so far I've lost approx 6lbs with many more to go

i am so tired

Does he have a new partner who may have a small child?

I have got rid of the box of coffee flavoured ice lollies DS2 decided he would rather eat them than not have one at all . My shopping doesn't come till tomorrow and all the ice lollies had been eaten.

Just start again tomorrow MAK.

double - no nieces or nephews. think hes up to old tricks again. he told dd that he didnt live with his father anymore. then when we asked him for his address to send him something he said he lived with his father and that dd was 'mistaken'

last time he suddenly started talking about children's books/ films he'd found a gf with a dd. None of my business but galling when he spends 5 hours every 5 weeks with his own dd. Twat.

Will sleep tonight instead of going out properally. the problem is lack of sleep. have migrain kicking in so going to start drinking rather then taking beta blockers and not being able to drink. yep i know dont forget to get proper food and drink water.

Bella - cross posts, yes I think so. Bah.

Jet - thank you for sending me the meal planner, very helpful.

Right back to painting dds bedroom.

Dinner today will be:

nice ham
Jamie-style coleslaw
boiled potatoes with butter (would be new potatoes but I think we just have big ones)

As soon as I can be botherd to make it.

mini here. runs in panting. I've only just caught up with you lot. New thread 8 pages already!! Have managed not to eat a sandwich today, but did succumb to shortbread, perhpas the calories fell out as I broke it.
Sorry didn't make it for introductions. Had sausage and mash 2 tiny boiled potatoes for tea. Planning a do nothing much evening.

i just made the finnster a pair of googles out of cut up loo roll tubes and pipe cleaners, he is now busy decorating them with gilter and stuff, arent i clever

Yank i got your email, will have a good look at it when i can open my eyes properly

nice ham and homemade coleslaw sounds yum, i have macdonlads, to tired to cook

I just had some tuna and sweetcorn smothered in low fat salad cream.

defluff glad you're going to a gp. As for ex? Very strange. I'd say you're probably right about the new gf.

I'm going to have a large glass of wine.

I need one.

Dinner sounds good Trills

Hi Shiney

Bella - glad all ok, DS will be slightly proud you know

Defluff - nice

Jet - i am of you going to Fanny's

Total - i always seem to miss you, so hi

Bitter - eat something

erm.......

Dinner is pizza, DD has a Mr Bump plaster on her knee and got a snotty cough, my dad came to do a couple of jobs at my house, my horse is a trollop and broke some fencing, DH is having a whiskey, and i am in a bit of a strop for no real reason.

Have a good evening all

Saf, I think when I get back from holiday I'm going to start protein only 2 days a week.

I could do that.

DH has taken the dog to FIL's so I'm on my own until later. You should have seen his face as he left, I thought he was going to cry. It's only for 10 days for goodness sake.

Defluff, no idea sorry.

Coleslaw is basically an excuse to play with my food processor. Recipe here if anyone wants it

Alice - I know you are right! and you are allowed to be in a strop

MrB has made me a rather large G&T (one would think he is trying to get me drunk...)

I bet the Finnster looks great in his goggles

I need a hug

I'm really pleased for my mate, who has a date with a guy on Saturday night

Annoyingly it's reinforcing that I've only had 1 relationship, ever. That was nearly 3 years ago and ended in him dumping me via voicemail for things I never even said, and finding out afterwards he was a compulsive liar and had been spreading things about what we'd been up to round work, that weren't even true. (we both worked at the same place and he got sacked, we think, the same day he dumped me). Example, we met at a staff party and I got a taxi home. Turns out he'd told everyone we'd gone to another club together. He also asked the mate I mentioned above, out while he was still with me. She said no and told me a while ago, she didn't want to say anything at the time as we looked like we were in a happy, stable relationship

Anyway, that was only a 6 week thing and wasn't serious, I've never anything with a guy... and now it feels like all my mates are going off and having relationships and I'm just sat here, all on my own, the fat girl of the group who can't pull a lad to save her life and attracts weirdos who are 10 years older than her (I was 18 when this happened).

I'm not normal Almost 3 years is too long, my mates who get dumped usually find someone else within six months max.

New-ish pic of me will be on my profile in a bit so maybe you can tell me what seems to repulse the opposite sex when I look at them.

Sorry, feeling really down about it. Stupid I know but I'm scared I'll be alone forever

Right, top photo on my profile is a recent ish one of me. Feels SO good to get that lot onto a screen Ignore me if you want, I go through this every so often because I get lonely.

LV - No real advice sorry but I would say that looking at your photos you look lovely in your dolphin one - very natural and lovely smile, but in the others you look a lot older than 18. My advice would be to go get a fab new hair cut, something young, and then get over to the s&b threads and sort yourself out an 'image', something stylish but that you feel confortable in.

i know she's a lot older than you but i think of mary portas (not for you but as an example) in that she has a distinct 'style' and always looks great and confident. I think you need to find your style, not for a bloke but for you. It will give you lots of confidence

Thanks DeFluffy I keep meaning to sort my image out, just need to find my little niche. All my mates are a lot taller than me (and skinnier, but I'm working on that one!) so to wear what they do really wouldn't work!

Oooh, while I'm on here, anyone got any ideas on how to put the resistance bands from EA Sports Active together?

LV, this is really really not meant to sound patronizing but you are only 18.

I never had a relationship until I was in my early 20's. It took me that long to be happy with myself. Obviously after that the men came running as I am so fucking gorgeous.Not

COOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOCK, COCK, COCK, COCK, COCK, COCK, COCK

No reason, just felt like saying cock alot

Yaaaaaaay Shiney you're back

Lol Bitter, not patronizing at all! I'm actually 20 now, maybe it's my mates that are odd for needing to be with someone all the time? Not all like that, my friend who's going out Saturday has been single for a good while, and i know 2 people who've been together about 7 years...

Still, feel much better for venting And am having a nosey at clothes online so that when I've lost some more weight and have some more money I can tidy myself up a bit