OK, I've been googling away like mad, and so far I love the idea of:
Heather
Chamomile
Runner beans (for the fence / shed)
Lamium
Ajuga reptans
Golden hop (for the fence)....does it smell hoppy?
Lavatera - is that a climby plant, or a bush? Could it go in a shady spot? It's v beautiful.
Zippi - can't find pics of a brown fig...does it have an official name? Ficus....erm..brunus? lol!
Jackie- good tip about the euphorbia. DD and DS are danger-magnets
Bozza - yes Granny and DS are on the patio which is by the house. It's quite shady on the patio (North facing garden, I think) but last summer that was A Good Thing. DD has a sand/water play-table onthe patio, and we have a small table and chairs. It's sheltered from the wind, so although shady it never seemed to chilly to sit out in the summer.
There are steps up to the garden on the right (can't see them in the photo).
Totally agree that side borders would make narrrow garfden too corridor-y, so am focussing on plants like golden hop, ivy? clematis?
Mintchoc - yes, a trellis would be a good idea for the shed.
We have a greengage tree next to the shed, so it's generally a bit shady in that area. Any ideas for a shade loving climber for the end fence?
Finally - any ideas for rose bushes? Partic climbing ones for the fence. It gets a lot of sin there.
Thanks again for all this advice. You lot deserve medals, you do