The tutor today started shouting at her
In what world is this okay? Tutor probably has something to be defensive about, and just the shouting at her is worthy of a complaint regardless. If the tutor has an issue, that's for the tutor's line manager, not aimed at the student!
Firstly OP, to help you. It's generally called Higher Education for university, not Further Education. Firstly some ex-poly universities are considered prestigious now either in some subjects or across the board, and require high grades. Some are also very large while some reknowned universities are actually quite small.
Many that offer Foundation Degrees or lower entry grades for 3 year degrees do very well in the teaching rankings and do good work for local students who can't move away and also for slightly less able students and those that do not come from HE-experienced backgrounds, haven't had the same opportunities in school, etc. It's worth having a look at all the different types of guides including the teaching and student satisfaction, for specific subjects. Foundation Degrees are usually vocational, quite practical, and a 3rd-year top-up is often available for students that want to go in that direction. Advanced apprenticeships generally have Foundation Degree or degree-level study in them too.
She should be able to access careers advice independently, you could try asking the local council as a starting point. She could also try to speak to admissions tutors on the courses she is interested in, or go to Open Days at universities that might be offering at the right grades for her, and ask these questions. There is a lot of information on UCAS's website and university websites about likely offers.
Universities are keen to widen participation and are interested in students from backgrounds such as first-in-family. They often have schemes such as visit days, summer schools, mentoring, speak-to-a- student. Some universities also have Foundation Years (for which a student loan is available) for students such as your daughter, if they think they have potential but need more preparation. Universities often have bursaries to help towards costs for first-in-family and other underrepresented groups, if this applies.
Even if your daughter ends up resitting or doing an Access course, all is not lost. I've known people be rejected from all 5 at the first go who are doing very well now. In her case, it's obvious why this has happened. There are strategies for making the best of Clearing too. These days I believe that you can also change course during that August process if you have accepted somewhere before that, and do better than predicted, if places are available. Or you can reject the place and start again with UCAS the following year.