I remember you androbob - I have had a name change so you won't remember me. My dd suffers from anxiety too and we had a very similar discussion about work (she was waitressing at the Golf Club but finding it too much) and concluded that she too will just focus on A levels for now (and her passion - playing football).
She has agreed to try and find some work experience for a week or two in either Easter or Summer holidays though - in something relevant to future plans (like graphic design)
On the dyslexia I have now booked ds (Y10) to have an assessment, with the Ed Psych I used for dd, for a morning in the half term. Bit perturbed that Ed Psych said the following:
"I would of course be very happy to do an assessment with [insert ds name] as I can understand why you are wondering about him possibly having a specific learning difficulty. It is a tricky situation with the school because even if the results show that he would meet the criteria for extra time they will not be able to use my scores to support it because the teachers are not seeing that he needs it"
Wtf?