So sorry to hear about all the bullying
You'd have hoped that by 16-17 they would have grown out of that! I expect the girls in question will be sad and bitter women by our age who will regret their wasted youths. But it's so hard to explain to our teenagers about "the long game"...I feel for you all (I was that bullied girl too and thank goodness for no social media in the 80s)
Actually I still get a bit of that from a couple of women I'm friends with now. Just occasionally they do that diminishing thing that makes me feel small and stupid. Like I will mention something that's going well/going badly for me and instead of support, they make it all about them and how much better/worse they have it. Last night I came home feeling really low and had to ask DS1 for advice (he had none but he made me laugh and we chatted for ages to cheer me up!) Bloody females can be so horrible
Warwick Uni is AMAZING! Yes it's in the Coventry rain...but the dedicated free P&R is well organised, student ambassadors welcoming and knowledgeable, campus is gorgeous, facilities great (single sex toilets too!!) DS is at an Economics talk so I asked for a bar and was directed to a fab place with cheapish beer and good music on the PA. I feel 18 again 😀😀 This is a definite UCAS contender from my point of view.