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anyone want to join me in cutting down the alcohol?

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compo · 17/08/2005 09:57

Had too many drinks last night whilst out with the girls. Have got into a bad habit of having a drink every day too. Wondered if anyone would like to join a mutual support group?!!

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Hazellnut · 02/09/2005 19:27

Its the weekend - it doesn't count ! I have gone three whole evenings (and days !) without alcohol so am back off the wagon for 3 days - yippee !!

dinosaur · 05/09/2005 16:58

Well I failed - Friday had one and a half bottles of beer, and Saturday had two gin and tonics. NVG at all!

Last night was a booze free evening though, and tonight will be.

How's everyone else doing?

Hazellnut · 05/09/2005 17:01

Had half a bottle of wine Friday, then Saturday I ended up driving so had 1 glass and then had 1 pint of lager and half bottle of wine last night. So not too bad for me . Back on the wagon tonight though till friday and have a wedding next saturday !!!

greenbean · 16/09/2005 20:26

myself and dh have just finished a bottle of wine that we started on wednesday - just having one glass of wine each per night! Must be a record for self restraint.

bagpussmice · 21/09/2005 10:58

I have just started this week at not drinking in the week only fri and sat eves...
Well done all those who have stuck it out! I'm not missing it so far (only 3 days) and sleeping better and don't wake up jaded. Only used to drink one or two small glasses of wine a night, but do feel better already for not having it!

lunarx · 21/09/2005 12:39

higher anxiety, jitters, weird dreams, insomnia are all common when quitting drinking, especially if you have been drinking quite frequently. it passes though..

good to those of you wanting to quit back..

-lunarx (non-drinker)

swedishmum · 21/09/2005 13:57

I really admire you all. I find it far too easy to drink wine. I'm pretty stressed in general at the moment so I know it would do me good. Actually now would be a good time to start as dh is away. It's good to write it down rather than just think to myself that I drink too much. That's it - I'm starting now!

motherinferior · 21/09/2005 13:58

I would like to point out smugly, please, that I am 21 days through a month off the booze

compo · 21/09/2005 14:00

wow, way to go MI. I've been very bad due to birthday and anniversary but this week has been slightly better

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Mum2girls · 21/09/2005 14:00

How do you feel MI - better for it? tempted to continue into month 2? gagging for a drink?

motherinferior · 21/09/2005 14:06

I think this is the fourth time I've done this - ever, I mean, first time was about seven years ago, then a month this time last year, and January. To be honest, I was prompted by one too many hangovers. Alcohol is the drug I really could misuse badly, I think (I used to, if I'm honest).

The other reason I decided not to drink this month is that DD1 started school and DP is away a lot. I really cannot face the prospect of dealing with the Inferiorettes impaired by booze - it's hard enough anyway! - and I have been trying to go swimming on Saturday and Sunday mornings (I didn't last weekend because I was knackered and I can't this weekend because he's away again) which is much harder to do if you've had any booze the previous night. And I know also that this month is so damn stressful (and it's been harder than I expected) that I really couldn't hit the bottle - it's easier just to stay off.

Hmmm, I'd like a drink. In the most surprising contexts - met a friend for Friday lunchtime pizza with dd2 last week and would have loved a glass of red. I've also found, though, that I have to think about why I'd like a drink when I'm tired or stressed.

I am definitely going to crack open a nice bottle the weekend after this, though, and should have re-set my capacities back down to a glass or at the most two on a weekday night.

motherinferior · 21/09/2005 14:06

And I've lost a few pounds, hurrah.

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Fio2 · 21/09/2005 15:22

I am like you batters, i am completely T Total atm except for weekends (!) but i still dont drink hardly anything on a weekend now

bagpussmice · 21/09/2005 17:24

go for it swedishmum! it's not as awful as it sounds, esp. if you can look forward to a drink on fri and sat eve! that's what keeps me going!
Have had a particularly stressful day today, and by now would be gagging for a drink, in fact, a cold beer would go down nicely, but I Will Not!!!

bagpussmice · 22/09/2005 10:46

whoops!! went round to see a friend last night and had a glass of wine
still I only had one, and dh and I did agree that if we went out it was okay to have a drink.
have decided that I will forgoe my friday night drink for last night!

greenbean · 04/10/2005 21:13

just got back from a meal out with friends and didnt drink at all. Feel great and I can still type!

greenmonsterbean · 07/10/2005 19:32

thanks god its Friday! Currently enjoying 2nd large glass of wine!
is anyone else still posting on this site?

dinny · 07/10/2005 19:34

hey, can I join? I am only drinking on Tuesdays and Fridays (yippeee!) Feel very virtuous and it's been easy so far as neither is ever too far on the horizon!

dinny · 07/10/2005 19:35

what's the female weekly recommended maximum alcohol - 14 or 21? I know it used to be 14 (oh, and on my drinking days I am drinking whatever I want really)

greenmonsterbean · 07/10/2005 19:37

Welcome Dinny esp on Friday . Yes I think its 14 still....but a good glass of wine is 2 or 3 units.

dinny · 07/10/2005 19:41

Thanks, Greenmonsterbean - have decided to let self have half a bottle two nights a week if I want it. How many is that?

greenmonsterbean · 07/10/2005 19:47

Enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

CountessDracula · 07/10/2005 19:54

Yes I need to do this too - my bi-annual month of non drinking is almost upon me so may wait until November (oh god the mn xmas party! Will have to do it ending before then)

I do usually have Feb and Nov off pretty much. I love it for the first two weeks then find it dull at weekends. We are very guilty of slipping into one too many most nights - we often have half bottle of wine and a V&T each on a week night which is way too much IMO.

I did have a cunning plan (as yet unimplemented of course) which was as follows - rather than think of myself as having nights off booze, think more of nights on, ie assume that I am not drinking Sun to Thurs nights and then if I do have to go out for work or with friends (which isn't often in the week) I can think of it as a treat to myself. Does that make sense? Then I am not being deprived but rather treated on occasion.

If anyone would like to try it and tell me if it works then please feel free

weesaidie · 07/10/2005 19:55

I'd like to join. When I was on a diet in June I didn't drink much and felt a lot better. Now however... how times change...

Last night I drank a huge amount of wine and did something fairly foolish. NO MORE!

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