Hi can I join this thread too? Two reasons I want to eat more healthily: Firstly I need to lose some weight - three children and over 40 and the weight has slowly crept on and I am just not happy about it. I know from past experience that I am not good at dieting - I just end up thinking about food all the time - I need a long-term sustainable change to my eating habits not an extreme diet where I will lose weight but put it back on again as soon as I stop (as I have seen happen to friends). In particular I would like a less bloated stomach. Also I don't want to feel guilty if I occasionally eat unhealthily e.g if out to dinner with friends. (There is nothing worse than meeting up with a friend who is on the 5:2 on their fasting day! It's so dull!)
Secondly, I have three lovely healthy children, and I want them to stay that way! They are all a healthy weight and fit, but like most children they do have a tendency towards sweet foods. Also my eldest is 8 and is starting to get body-conscious and I want her to grow up with a good relationship with food and her body. I try to avoid talking about dieting or losing weight in front of her.
With children the best way is to lead by example I think, so if they see me eating healthily every day then that will seem normal to them. Fortunately they do have quite good diets already but have various phases about what they will/won't eat which can make mealtimes a challenge at time!
So, I am trying to make meals which I can adapt to myself (smaller portions, fewer carbs, plus I don't like meat); husband (cycles a lot so needs bigger portions than me, eats meat); and the children. Not an easy task!
Anyway, small steps. My first goals are:
- Reduce the amount of refined carbohydrates I eat (replacing with more vegetables, or healthier carbs. I like Ryvita. Or I will have a salad instead of a slice of bread.)
- Reduce the amount of refined sugar
- Making sure I am having protein with each meal - as I don't eat meat this is tricky but I do eat fish, eggs, nuts, pulses, cheese
- I can't totally give up tea and coffee but I am replacing some cups with green tea
- Less snacking on junk between meals
The refined carbs I am not finding too bad giving up. I know that my downfall is my sweet tooth though!
Does this all sound OK so far? Apologies for the long post. This has been a while coming!