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I feel sad about Angela Rayner

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Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:13

OK, I am left leaning so maybe I am already biased, BUT, I do feel sad that a woman who overcame early issues, who was “proper” working class, who didn’t speak the kings English, but rather with a proper local dialect, and achieved a high office without a single spoon in her working class mouth, has gone.

i do understand that many people will agree with what has happened. I would have been fuming if the story played out the way it had as a different party, and I understand that Angela had to go, BUT as a woman who believes in holding up other women, particularly those who aren’t born to certain families, or have expectations placed on them from word go, I do feel a bit sad this morning.

There was a working class woman in the House of Commons. A working class woman was the deputy prime minister of this country. It is not even 100 years since working class women could vote. I feel sad.

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RoseAndGeranium · 07/09/2025 09:45

So your contention is that now, after decades of widening access to higher education, when the proportion of state educated students at Oxford has never been higher and is to some extent artificially supported by policies that seek to recruit young people who attended state run schools and whose parents did not attend university, and after significant efforts to improve the proportion of women entering STEM subjects, and the opening of all colleges rather than 4 or 5 to women, that it would be HARDER for a girl with Margaret Thatcher’s background, obvious drive and talent to win a place to study chemistry at Oxford? Goodness. Those efforts and the large financial outlay associated with them were unnecessary and counterproductive, weren’t they?

Snakebite61 · 07/09/2025 09:46

curious79 · 06/09/2025 06:31

Yes and no.

I liked her when I heard her on Leading (Alistair Campbell / Rory Stewart), but I hate her politics and frankly I hate the way she wears her roots like a badge as if that makes her some kind of all knowing defender of the people.

Starmer and Rayner and Reeves (who lied on her CV big time - how is she even still in role?!) are absolutely screwing up this country.

let’s face it, she screwed up, twice, tried to game the system, then tried to blame a law firm. If she had been a Tory MP, regardless of her background, everyone would have been baying for blood from the word go.

So F her, and maybe she’ll stage a come back in the future but with a bit more humility

It's 14 years of tories that has screwed the country up. God help us if the moron right wingers vote reform in. Then you'll see the end of Britain.

Efacsen · 07/09/2025 09:47

Ddakji · 07/09/2025 09:31

The lie is that if she had a grace and favour house in London, why did she need another house anywhere “to be near London”.

IDK - that seems to be stretching the definition of a 'lie' quite widely

The simple answer is Hove seafront is a lovely place to live - it's not busy and grubby like Brighton/London and is very close to acres and acres of open downland

And obviously still close to her place of work

I'm not going to discuss/speculate about other 'personal reasons' why she'd want to live in Hove that have been publlshed in trashy newspapers online etc,
That's her private business and doesn't make it a 'lie'

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BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 09:47

RoseAndGeranium · 07/09/2025 09:45

So your contention is that now, after decades of widening access to higher education, when the proportion of state educated students at Oxford has never been higher and is to some extent artificially supported by policies that seek to recruit young people who attended state run schools and whose parents did not attend university, and after significant efforts to improve the proportion of women entering STEM subjects, and the opening of all colleges rather than 4 or 5 to women, that it would be HARDER for a girl with Margaret Thatcher’s background, obvious drive and talent to win a place to study chemistry at Oxford? Goodness. Those efforts and the large financial outlay associated with them were unnecessary and counterproductive, weren’t they?

Who are you talking to?

PigletJohn · 07/09/2025 09:49

Should have read the Torygraph.

I feel sad about Angela Rayner
opencecilgee · 07/09/2025 09:58

Same

she couldnt afford that flat. She should not have bought it

she forgot who she is

RoseAndGeranium · 07/09/2025 10:00

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 09:47

Who are you talking to?

oh, that was for @jesusisarochdalegirl . The page automatically refreshes and wipes the quotes if I go away for too long. Combination of old phone and having to deal with occasional disagreements between children. Which are now not so occasional so this’ll be my last for a while.

TheAutumnalCrow · 07/09/2025 10:01

PigletJohn · 07/09/2025 09:49

Should have read the Torygraph.

Quite, @PigletJohn. Good spot.

MaturingCheeseball · 07/09/2025 10:02

Perhaps she wrote the article! #newcareer

opencecilgee · 07/09/2025 10:03

Obviously Hove is where the boyfriend lives. Nothing to do with her work

she has let herself down.

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 10:04

opencecilgee · 07/09/2025 09:58

Same

she couldnt afford that flat. She should not have bought it

she forgot who she is

Yes, she should definitely remember her station in life. No chance of social mobility for her. 🙄

Barbadossunset · 07/09/2025 10:10

We shouldn’t be judging anyone born 100 years ago by today’s standards, it was a different world.

@Blossomtoes That is very true but it doesn’t stop people from judging and trying to cancel Winston Churchill, Cecil Rhodes and Co for reflecting views that were widely held in those days.

Efacsen · 07/09/2025 10:13

RoseAndGeranium · 07/09/2025 08:46

It’s over an hour from London by train. That’s only just within daily commuting distance. More to the point, she already had a grace and favour mansion in London (where she mostly works) and Hove is absolutely nowhere near either her constituency (where she ought to spend at least some of her working time) or her children (whom she claimed she had done all this to benefit). If, as has been speculated, she moved to Hove because she is projected to lose her current seat and wanted to embed herself in advance in a safer seat, that is a gross dereliction of duty to her constituents, the people to whom she owes her first professional responsibility. If it was because her boyfriend is down there that’s a personal choice but again, it is unclear how she expected to continue to serve her constituents until the end of this Parliament while splitting her time between London and Hove. Either way it is plainly nothing to do with looking after any of her children.

It’s over an hour from London by train. That’s only just within daily commuting distance'

You obviously don't live anywhere near London or know what distances people travel to work there
B&H are prime commuting locations - the stations at 7am are packed to the gills with 1000s and 1000s of commuters

Neither Central London or Hove are near her children in her Aston constituency - Hove is about 50 miles further

If, as has been speculated, she moved to Hove because she is projected to lose her current seat and wanted to embed herself in advance in a safer seat, that is a gross dereliction of duty

3 seats in B&H
Peter Kyle LP
Sian Berry Green
David Ward LP

So which seat do you think she was eyeing up?
Sian Berry has huge majority
David Wards majority is no better than hers in AShton
Peter Kyle?? - do you think he's going to rollover and give up his safe seat

Efacsen · 07/09/2025 10:21

RoseAndGeranium · 07/09/2025 10:00

oh, that was for @jesusisarochdalegirl . The page automatically refreshes and wipes the quotes if I go away for too long. Combination of old phone and having to deal with occasional disagreements between children. Which are now not so occasional so this’ll be my last for a while.

There's a little box on the right-hand side of the message box labelled save 'draft' - tick that stops it being erased

TheaBrandt1 · 07/09/2025 10:30

I think it’s awful of her to blame the solicitors. They will have been paid a relatively modest fee to do a conveyance. They rightly identified a potential issue and advised she takes specialised advice on that. It’s not for them to give that specialised advice included in their small fee 🙄 and to take the risk on that.

I do this all the time. I can see clients face an iht liability so explain simply how to mitigate that. If they want more specialised advice I sign post them to one of the decent IFAs I know. If they came whining back to me saying it was my fault their tax affairs went wrong I would tell them to sod off (but professionally).

arggggg · 07/09/2025 10:36

She is selfish and money grabbing. She already is questionable after the whole
council house fiasco. Why does no one remember that? Also taking freebies all the time & criticised others for less than what she did. This was not an honest mistake & she lied, claiming she followed advice. That was found not to be true.

TheaBrandt1 · 07/09/2025 10:38

Also if you are going to strongly criticise others you need to be whiter than white yourself. Glass houses and stones and all that.

That said agree it’s a shame. Power really does seem to corrupt doesn’t it?

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 10:49

arggggg · 07/09/2025 10:36

She is selfish and money grabbing. She already is questionable after the whole
council house fiasco. Why does no one remember that? Also taking freebies all the time & criticised others for less than what she did. This was not an honest mistake & she lied, claiming she followed advice. That was found not to be true.

I do remember it. I also remember it being investigated by HMRC twice and the decision being made twice that no tax was payable.

Efacsen · 07/09/2025 10:58

jesusisarochdalegirl · 07/09/2025 08:56

Alf Roberts had at least two grocery stores - they were not tiny sweet shops!

The family was able to support Margaret Roberts through university. It was a different world.

They were at the very top of the petit bourgeoisie in Lincolnshire, with additional status through their respectability and their political and religious commitments. In other words, very solid lower middle class.

'A flat above a shop' in the 1920s and 1930s was not the same as in Common People! Before the interwar semis were built, where else would they have lived?!

Someone earlier described Barbara Castle and Mo Mowlam as working class. Castle was middle class, though when she went to university she felt very 'Yorkshire'. Mowlam's upbringing was complicated by her father's alcoholism, but he became Coventry's assistant postmaster.

Edited

Just a small addition to this interesting post - when MT went to Oxford there were no tuition fees to pay and a full grant for living costs - so possibly less expensive than today

BIossomtoes · 07/09/2025 11:06

Efacsen · 07/09/2025 10:58

Just a small addition to this interesting post - when MT went to Oxford there were no tuition fees to pay and a full grant for living costs - so possibly less expensive than today

Much less expensive. It literally cost nothing to be a student before 1998. Grants were far from generous but it was possible to live frugally on them. I think I got £800 a term in the 80s.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 07/09/2025 11:15

If Rayner or any other MP, of any party, wants to have property in Hove or anywhere else, wants to own more than one home, or wants to have business interests outside parliament, good luck to them. Nothing wrong with that. I don’t really understand why AR’s given up living in her constituency, but that’s a political choice for her and her constituents to make their minds up about.

But it should all be done properly. Which is why PigletJohn’s Telegraph post is so pointless. The Telegraph was offering information about reducing tax, not breaking the rules.

And if a politician is going to carve themselves a name for being a flayer of dodgy conduct…break the rules and embarrassment and ridicule beckon.

GoodEnough1 · 07/09/2025 11:19

beguilingeyes · 06/09/2025 06:30

Raises hand me too. I believe it was an honest mistake and TPTB and the media have been gunning for her from day one.

So, was Angela’s “mistake” less or more important than Boris’ birthday cake? I also think it is sad that power corrupts, but it does.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 07/09/2025 11:57

Indeed. Rayner and Zahawi. Peas in a pod.

Except for Rayner’s outspoken, self-appointed crusade against dodginess of course.

Owl55 · 07/09/2025 11:58

Agree ! I think she was the new “John Prescot” to the tories and subject to ridicule even before this trouble xx

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