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I feel sad about Angela Rayner

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Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:13

OK, I am left leaning so maybe I am already biased, BUT, I do feel sad that a woman who overcame early issues, who was “proper” working class, who didn’t speak the kings English, but rather with a proper local dialect, and achieved a high office without a single spoon in her working class mouth, has gone.

i do understand that many people will agree with what has happened. I would have been fuming if the story played out the way it had as a different party, and I understand that Angela had to go, BUT as a woman who believes in holding up other women, particularly those who aren’t born to certain families, or have expectations placed on them from word go, I do feel a bit sad this morning.

There was a working class woman in the House of Commons. A working class woman was the deputy prime minister of this country. It is not even 100 years since working class women could vote. I feel sad.

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EasternStandard · 06/09/2025 10:47

GlasgowGal2014 · 06/09/2025 10:45

I agree. I think it's really unfair that a working class woman is probably held to higher standards than her male, middle class peers (especially those on the other side of the house - can you imagine how Boris Johnson would have handled this?). Unfortunately they are, and she needed to be teflon to survive in this situation. I suspect she probably did have the right intentions, I just wish she'd gotten decent legal advice.

There’s no higher standards. She lashed out at everyone and got caught.

1apenny2apenny · 06/09/2025 10:47

Nope, happy to see her gone, was worried Keir would let her get away with it (although I’m sure he was told that the fall out from the public given the current shit show they have created would be too much).

People believed because of her background and politics she was different and honest, she played on this but has shown she is no different to the rest of them. When will these people understand that the rules apply to them?

EasternStandard · 06/09/2025 10:48

Strumpetpumpet · 06/09/2025 10:39

I agree
i understand why she had to resign, but there is a nasty undertone in some of the reporting. She has the audacity to be northern, working class and female and certain aspects of our (billionaire tax dodging male owned) press just don’t like that.
She’ll be back.

Come on. Do you recall the media attacks on Sunak’s wife? Did you mind the nasty undertone there

The people who cheered that on are now seeing what the media does.

BustopherPonsonbyJones · 06/09/2025 10:49

GlasgowGal2014 · 06/09/2025 10:45

I agree. I think it's really unfair that a working class woman is probably held to higher standards than her male, middle class peers (especially those on the other side of the house - can you imagine how Boris Johnson would have handled this?). Unfortunately they are, and she needed to be teflon to survive in this situation. I suspect she probably did have the right intentions, I just wish she'd gotten decent legal advice.

The right intentions to own numerous properties without paying the correct taxes? Perhaps they were her intentions. I don’t know if you can describe them as ‘right’.

Velmy · 06/09/2025 10:49

It's certainly a shame. I imagine she could have inspired a lot of women from similar backgrounds to enter politics.

But you can't play the "Working class, woman of the people, I'm not like the rest of them" role unless you're whiter than white. Whether her mistakes were through carelessness or malice, the optics of what she did are awful.

So while I think it's a shame, I don't have much sympathy.

TiredCatLady · 06/09/2025 10:51

I don’t have a single shred of sympathy for her. I’m about as left as they come - I’ve always viewed her as someone who would buy and sell you to get what she wanted.

What she did was both stupid and arrogant - nothing to do with right wing press victimisation, this has come from someone who knows her well. Probably someone she has stood on at some point. That she has jumped before she was pushed tells me there is more to come out.

TalkToTheHand123 · 06/09/2025 10:51

Too much of a big gob and should have known better.

NeelyOHara · 06/09/2025 10:52

IGaveSoManySigns · 06/09/2025 06:34

Me too.

She took legal advice, it was wrong, and now she’s being hung out to dry over it. Meanwhile, the tories fleeced us for years and got celebrated for it.

I mean, the people giving the legal advice completely dispute this, so please don’t write it like it is a fact.

MillicentFaucet · 06/09/2025 10:53

HerNeighbourTotoro · 06/09/2025 10:32

I feel it's sad that her advisors should have made sure that things like this dont happen or are quickly rectified, I mean she must have been paying someone a lot of money to do their job and they clearly didnt.

Makes me think how Diane Abbot was torn to pieces over that interview where she jumbled up the numbers, and all her achievements went down the drain.
Sad times.

Which advisors are you thinking of? She will have political advisors but they won't know the details of her personal finances and even if they did they wouldn't be able to give her the correct advice.
If you mean the conveyancing firm she used (and it appears she chose the cheapest she could find) they did give her the correct advice (seek specialist SDLT advice) but she ignored them.
She hasn't been badly advised she's been caught deliberately underpaying tax again, probably because she wasn't censured for it last time.

ajandjjmum · 06/09/2025 10:53

Fortune14 · 06/09/2025 07:09

It cost me £350 to get a specialist opinion from a specialist tax advisor about a complicated SDLT situation, I remember when signing the conveyancer paperwork it specifically states they do not advise/are not held responsible on SDLT amounts due.

As it happens, we didn't need the specialist opinion as my understanding from simply reading the GOV.uk info was actually correct but it confirmed this. (So I cant believe she didn't understand it was due)

So I don’t have much sympathy, she could have easily sought a specialist opinion (as she had been advised to!) and in her position it shows a startling lack of foresight & possibly arrogance, that she didnt! Why on earth would you take that chance.

Why on earth would you take that chance.

To save £40,000.

Bit like accepting free clothes from Starmer's mate - she wriggled out of that one too.

As others have said - real life Animal Farm.

Northernladdette · 06/09/2025 10:55

Neededa · 06/09/2025 06:58

I do understand those of you who either disagree with Labour policies, or who are disappointed by what you believe are policies that aren’t “left” enough for those that want more.
But I posted in the feminism chat because I somehow believe this is a feminist issue.
Shit, am I wrong because I am still happy that I finally have a Labour MP.? Maybe? I just liked the idea that out deputy PM, was a woman who didn’t go to Oxford, that just meant something to me.

Do you honestly think she would have been differently if she was a man?

EasternStandard · 06/09/2025 10:56

NeelyOHara · 06/09/2025 10:52

I mean, the people giving the legal advice completely dispute this, so please don’t write it like it is a fact.

Agree her lie has led to this misinformation.

If people could be sued for repeating it I wouldn’t mind.

FriendlyGreenAlien · 06/09/2025 10:57

I’m inclined to agree with most of what you say. But, did she set up her son’s trust without legal advice? That would imply a level of knowledge of detail that perhaps wouldn’t have got the stamp duty issue wrong.

plus while it’s unfair that a working class woman in high office has to be cleaner than clean to avoid bad press, she knows that’s the world she operates in.

Herberty · 06/09/2025 10:58

Iwishicouldflyhigh · 06/09/2025 09:29

Agree, I think more will come out. Is it really in her son’s best interest that his compensation money has been used to buy him a bigger share of an overvalued 4 bed detached house?

If you think it through, the Ashton property that she sold to her son's trust fund is her constituency home. Is she freeloading on the trust when she stays there or is she now paying rent to her son's trust fund?

As a trustee of the son's personal injury funds she has duties as a trustee to act in the best interests of her son.

What will be interesting is to see what property expenses she claims as a MP now she has no legal outgoings on the Ashton property and no free home in London.

I don't feel too sorry for her though as her net income is still around £5,000 per month - though she does have a £650,000 mortgage to pay.

jesusisarochdalegirl · 06/09/2025 10:58

@Tryingtokeepgoing Margaret Thatcher's school was private at the time she went. In 1945 it became a Direct Grant grammar, where some places were reserved for competitive scholarships paid for by central government, the majority private. From 1976 most went into the state system though some stayed private. I think KGGS also 'went state' then.

Kesteven and Grantham Girls’ School - School History

Her father was chair of governors of the school for 26 years! He was a local dignatary - he owned more than one shop, was an Alderman, was a JP, involved in Rotary etc.

It's hard nowadays to understand what regional social life was like a hundred years ago. They were a prominent family, if not metropolitan middle class, and that stratum of society has largely disappeared. They were Methodist, for example, rather than Anglican, which was much less 'establishment' at the time - she switched to Anglicanism in her 20s as part of her upward mobility journey.

The family was historically Liberal. Involvement in small business/industry rather than the traditional professions/agriculture, ethos of self-reliance and self-improvement, being not-south-eastern, Non-Conformist, Liberal until the 1920s/30s all clustered together at the time. It was a different world!

Thatcher was a very bright and hard-working young girl, if not the most brilliant. From memory, she didn't get a scholarship to Somerville, so her family would have had to fund her. She got a solid second. There's a nice summary here of Thatcher-the-scientist: Margaret Hilda Thatcher. 13 October 1925—8 April 2013 | Biographical Memoirs of Fellows of the Royal Society

Kesteven and Grantham Girls’ School - School History

https://kestevengrantham.lincs.sch.uk/key_information/about_school/school_history/school_history.html

Wintersgirl · 06/09/2025 10:59

.Nope...

yoghurtknitter · 06/09/2025 10:59

Sorry but honest mistake or not…..she would have absolutely crucified someone else if they had done the same. She had to go

TheAutumnalCrow · 06/09/2025 11:00

SeagullSam2027 · 06/09/2025 10:41

But you don't feel uneasy that Angela Rayner deliberately chose not to take specialist advice that resulted in her underpaying 40k of tax?

Now that, I feel puzzled about. Puzzled, curious, and intrigued. And I’d like to know where the boyfriend mentioned by so many fits in to it all.

Spidey66 · 06/09/2025 11:02

Me too. I like her. She’s always come across as ‘one of us’ and able to empathise with voters struggles as she’s struggled too in the past

hamstersarse · 06/09/2025 11:02

In terms of a feminist angle on this whole sorry saga. I feel she was over promoted either because she’s a woman or because she’s ’working class’ or a combination of both.

It goes to prove we have to look at these roles only based on merit, people can’t be employed just because they are women, it’s too important.

Also, she was more aggressive than almost all the men in politics, it just wasn’t a good look for females in politics. Some of the things she said she got away with just because she’s a woman.

EasternStandard · 06/09/2025 11:04

TheAutumnalCrow · 06/09/2025 11:00

Now that, I feel puzzled about. Puzzled, curious, and intrigued. And I’d like to know where the boyfriend mentioned by so many fits in to it all.

Really? Nothing on breaking the ministerial code and lying to try to push a small conveyancer under the bus.

LemondrizzleShark · 06/09/2025 11:08

Menopausalsourpuss · 06/09/2025 09:43

I don't think you need an expensive accountant to know how much sdlt to pay (and if you do there's something seriously wrong). Any intelligent person (not Rayner obvs) should be able to work it out.

To be fair, the property in trust for the child does complicate things. She thought she’d “sold” that house to the trust, and didn’t realise that she would still be classed as “owning” it as the child’s parent.

The online calculator wouldn’t flag that as an issue, you’d need professional advice to know that (which she clearly should have sought instead of winging it).

SeagullSam2027 · 06/09/2025 11:08

TheAutumnalCrow · 06/09/2025 11:00

Now that, I feel puzzled about. Puzzled, curious, and intrigued. And I’d like to know where the boyfriend mentioned by so many fits in to it all.

Well, we have to assume the boyfriend is an innocent party. However, further questions will no doubt be asked about the £280,000 payment made to Great South West (and why an exception was made for them after Rayner's department had previously axed core funding), given the link with Tarry.

GAJLY · 06/09/2025 11:10

I must be the only one who doesn't feel sorry for her. She lied to gain financially. She once said she was against the tories fiddling their taxes and expenses. My, how the worm has turned when faced with greed. I want every cheater in parliament to leave, regardless of their background or characteristics.

DeeKitch · 06/09/2025 11:17

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 06/09/2025 10:02

No..

They calculate SDLT

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