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Can I be a feminist and not be fully pro-choice until term?

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Moonfishstar · 24/02/2024 19:03

As in to think there should be some restrictions on stopping a mother aborting their foetus very close to term if there is no reason other than the mother has decided not to proceed?

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DaffodilsAlready · 25/02/2024 09:27

Moonfishstar · 25/02/2024 09:12

@DaffodilsAlready

  • I kind of see your point, but not wholly. The distinction would be about the sentient, conscious will to live, I suppose, which comes back to when we confer foetal personhood.*

I'm truly sorry for your loss and can only begin to imagine how heartbreaking it must have been Flowers. And I'm sorry for offending you.

I was going to leave my reply to that, but as you've replied to a poster who challenged your post, I wanted to add, that the point you make is exactly my point - the "sentient, conscious" will to live doesn't magically appear at birth. It's not until we're approaching school age (or possibly beyond) that we consciously conceive of life, death, and our own mortality.

Yes, and I have once read a philosophy paper that made the suggestion that infanticide up to a certain point should be considered in the same way as abortion. Whether I agree with this or not, the point can be made. But my point above is that women do not go around willy-nilly having late term abortions or indeed, committing infanticide. The law, which was the product of decades of experience and campaigning, sets boundaries around this, which balance women’s bodily autonomy and reproductive rights with those of the foetus, therefore the law confers foetal personhood at a certain point. In this sense, the will to live or not is immaterial, foetal personhood is about viability, the ability to live outside the womb. I suppose that is why is see the word ‘will’ as erroneous and tone deaf in the context of foetal life.

That law, as we know from other countries, is vulnerable to challenge and overturning. That is the point we should be concerned about, not whether it is feminist or not to want no such limits.

OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 09:28

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:01

"It is a one dimensional ethical issue. It is about a woman's bodily autonomy."

I don't think any reasonable person (feminist or not) can say that the ONLY issue involved is women's bodily autonomy.

You can say that that's the most important issue, in your opinion, which trumps all others, but surely you can see that there are other issues in play also, @sashh?

Not least the fact that the further along in gestation, the more difficult (to perform and to recover from, both physically and psychologically) abortions become.

And the fact that there are thousands of foetuses who are born alive after attempted abortions post-20 weeks every year in this country alone - who require the involvement of healthcare professionals in their care, even if they die very soon after. This is obviously potentially very traumatic.

Anyone who contends that this whole area isn't an ethical minefield is perhaps not in full possession of all the relevant data.

There are other issues involved, not only the bodily autonomy of the mother. Many of the posters on this thread do not consider it unfeminist or anti-abortion to point this out.

And the fact that there are thousands of foetuses who are born alive after attempted abortions post-20 weeks every year in this country alone

Source?

Moonfishstar · 25/02/2024 09:28

OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 09:25

Can anyone get figures on late term abortions which were not done for medical reasons?

Well, they'd currently be illegal, so probably not!

The issue is whether that should be made legal.

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ObliviousCoalmine · 25/02/2024 09:32

@ZebraPensAreLife

I don’t consider that position anti-feminist.

You are wrong.

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:38

OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 09:25

Can anyone get figures on late term abortions which were not done for medical reasons?

No, such cases will obviously not be officially recorded.

"...substantial risk that if the child were born it would suffer from such physical or mental abnormalities as to be seriously handicapped"

There are no legal definitions of 'substantial risk' or 'seriously handicapped', btw.

Abortions carried out after 24 weeks for conditions like cleft palate or club foot are reckoned to be significantly under-reported.

amp.theguardian.com/society/2003/dec/02/health.medicineandhealth

This article usefully details the Abortion Act of 1967, and the Human Fertilisation & Embryology Act of 1990 at the end.

mollyfolk · 25/02/2024 09:39

sashh · 25/02/2024 06:20

I would.

There was a case in Ireland, a young woman asylum seeker who had been raped as she was fleeing her home country.

She did not want to be pregnant. She could not get an abortion in Ireland. She tried to get to the UK but was arrested. She was returned to Ireland.

As she couldn't get an abortion she stopped eating.

She was detained in a mental hospital.

The court made an order that she would be forcibly fed and hydrated. But this was not carried out and she was told by the hospital they would carry out an abortion.

They didn't, instead they performed a cesarean at 25 weeks.

https://www.theguardian.com/world/2014/aug/17/ireland-woman-forced-birth-denied-abortion

https://www.amnesty.ie/ms-ys-case/

This is what happens when abortion is banned. the baby was left with life long disability. She should have been offered an abortion when she first asked for it.

Abortions after 21 weeks are rare. And when people have access to safe, legal and free abortion- they overwhelmingly opt to have it early on. Restrictions to abortion cause later abortions. Abortions very late in pregnancy are usually due to a risk of life to the mother or other medical reasons and it’s extremely difficult to legislate for. It should be a decision between a woman & her doctors.

Do you think women would swan in at 37 weeks and say they changed their mind? And do you think a doctor would say oh grand so.

Hysteria around “late-term abortions” is just pro life propaganda

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:44

@OdinsHorse the RCOG guidelines I linked to upthread. I tried to cut and paste the relevant table, but the formatting went wonky. It's on page 40, Table 7, in the section on Feticide: "Live birth rates after termination for foetal abnormality in West Midlands 1995-2004".

Weirdly, I can't even cut and paste normal text from that document, but it states that 3.2% of fetuses in that category were born alive, which I find shockingly high.

PinkMildred · 25/02/2024 09:46

Yes, people like the OP and I are not pro life - I want to keep the law as it is now. Late term abortions for medical reasons are fine in my book. The question is whether they should be allowed for any, non medical reason.

If that’s just a theoretical argument well, why not have it? Feminism is a philosophy, we should be able to discuss these things.

And some people on this thread think very clearly that if you do not agree with the position ‘a woman should be able to have a termination up to birth for no medical reason’ then you are not a feminist.

PinkMildred · 25/02/2024 09:48

If you genuinely think it is a feminist issue that any abortion should be allowed for reasons of the woman’s bodily autonomy: why say ‘a decision for a woman and her doctors’? If you really think that, doctors should not have any part I the decision.

OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 09:50

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:38

No, such cases will obviously not be officially recorded.

"...substantial risk that if the child were born it would suffer from such physical or mental abnormalities as to be seriously handicapped"

There are no legal definitions of 'substantial risk' or 'seriously handicapped', btw.

Abortions carried out after 24 weeks for conditions like cleft palate or club foot are reckoned to be significantly under-reported.

amp.theguardian.com/society/2003/dec/02/health.medicineandhealth

This article usefully details the Abortion Act of 1967, and the Human Fertilisation & Embryology Act of 1990 at the end.

What do you mean obviously?

Moonfishstar · 25/02/2024 09:52

@mollyfolk

Do you think women would swan in at 37 weeks and say they changed their mind? And do you think a doctor would say oh grand so.

I don't get why pro-choice purists are so keen to stress this would never happen if the abortion question is genuinely a simple one-dimensional "my body, my choice"'issue. What would it matter if a woman did do this?

Also, why are pro-choice purists so keen to advocate for a right that they insist would never, ever be used?!

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OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 09:53

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:44

@OdinsHorse the RCOG guidelines I linked to upthread. I tried to cut and paste the relevant table, but the formatting went wonky. It's on page 40, Table 7, in the section on Feticide: "Live birth rates after termination for foetal abnormality in West Midlands 1995-2004".

Weirdly, I can't even cut and paste normal text from that document, but it states that 3.2% of fetuses in that category were born alive, which I find shockingly high.

So your stats on later term abortions was over 9/10 years and you then compared with partners killing women over 1 year?

Apologies if I'm wrong, but I could say Sainsbury's is more expensive than Harrods as I spend £6,000 (over a year) but I only spend £500 (a week) in Harrods

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:55

@OdinsHorse because they're illegal, they happen under the radar, and no-one's looking for or recording that data.

Any comment on the rest of my post?

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:56

'So your stats on later term abortions was over 9/10 years and you then compared with partners killing women over 1 year?'

I think you're confusing me with someone else, @OdinsHorse - I've made no comments on partners killing women.

Moonfishstar · 25/02/2024 09:58

@DaffodilsAlready

The law, which was the product of decades of experience and campaigning, sets boundaries around this, which balance women’s bodily autonomy and reproductive rights with those of the foetus, therefore the law confers foetal personhood at a certain point.

It sounds like we agree then, and we believe that the current law is broadly reasonable in recognising the various moral, ethical and practical issues at play.

My issue is with those who believe there should be no law other than a very literal "my body, my choice" until birth. And that if you don't believe this, you are a misogynist and can't call yourself a feminist.

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PaperDoIIs · 25/02/2024 09:59

Moonfishstar · 25/02/2024 09:52

@mollyfolk

Do you think women would swan in at 37 weeks and say they changed their mind? And do you think a doctor would say oh grand so.

I don't get why pro-choice purists are so keen to stress this would never happen if the abortion question is genuinely a simple one-dimensional "my body, my choice"'issue. What would it matter if a woman did do this?

Also, why are pro-choice purists so keen to advocate for a right that they insist would never, ever be used?!

Simply put, because of the women in between who at the moment do not have that option.

PaperDoIIs · 25/02/2024 10:00

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:55

@OdinsHorse because they're illegal, they happen under the radar, and no-one's looking for or recording that data.

Any comment on the rest of my post?

And that's a good thing? If they happen anyway according to you, why not allow it to happen safely and legally for everyone's benefit?

Spendonsend · 25/02/2024 10:03

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:44

@OdinsHorse the RCOG guidelines I linked to upthread. I tried to cut and paste the relevant table, but the formatting went wonky. It's on page 40, Table 7, in the section on Feticide: "Live birth rates after termination for foetal abnormality in West Midlands 1995-2004".

Weirdly, I can't even cut and paste normal text from that document, but it states that 3.2% of fetuses in that category were born alive, which I find shockingly high.

It sounds very distressing. But it is worth remembering that sadly women can chose to carry to full term for severe fetal abnormality and their baby lives just a few minutes or short hours My aunt did that knowing her baby would live for only hours - something to do with the babies brain and central nervous system. she was offered an abortion earlier. So its possible her baby would have also been alive for a short time if she had chosen that.

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 10:04

I didn't say it was a good thing.

I'm not sure I follow your logic: something illegal and arguably immoral is happening, despite being illegal, so therefore we should make it legal..?

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 10:05

(That was in answer to @PaperDoIIs)

Moonfishstar · 25/02/2024 10:09

@PaperDoIIs

Simply put, because of the women in between who at the moment do not have that option.

In which case, why not argue for a relaxation in the current law to deal with these women, and a debate can be had on the issues, rather than get rid of the rules completely!

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HBGKC · 25/02/2024 10:13

Yes @Spendonsend, my good friend's baby was diagnosed in the womb with anencephaly (where the baby's skull doesn't form properly). This is considered a condition incompatible with life, and she was told her baby would probably only live minutes, possibly hours.

She actually lived for 12 days, they were able to bring her home for most of that time, and are very grateful to have had that time with her.

Reading the RCOG guidelines, yes sometimes an aborted baby is 'allowed' to be born alive in cases where the medics are 100% sure that death will occur very soon after, but they don't seem to recommend it - perhaps due to the potential trauma (to all involved) of such a baby actually surviving much longer than was anticipated.

OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 10:28

Findwen · 24/02/2024 22:34

If you put yourself in the shoes of someone that feels late term abortions are infanticide, that statistic is gob-smackingly awful.

We are incensed that ~120 women are killed are year by current or former intimate partners.... but 2,000 viable babies/foetuses are ended and some feel that should be supported wherever wanted.

Apologies to you @HBGKC

This was the post I was referring to

PaperDoIIs · 25/02/2024 10:29

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 10:04

I didn't say it was a good thing.

I'm not sure I follow your logic: something illegal and arguably immoral is happening, despite being illegal, so therefore we should make it legal..?

If you care about safeguarding women and girls rather than criminalising and punishing them for choosing what to do with their body, then yes.

Tbh that applies in other cases , especially when it concerns vulnerable people.

OdinsHorse · 25/02/2024 10:30

HBGKC · 25/02/2024 09:55

@OdinsHorse because they're illegal, they happen under the radar, and no-one's looking for or recording that data.

Any comment on the rest of my post?

So if they are illegal and not reported, then how many are really being done? Do you think 100s? I don't, I think most (nearly if not all) late term abortions are done for medical reasons.

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