Apologies for the heavy thread so close to Christmas. This has been weighing heavily on my mind, not sure what I'm even asking for but sick of feeling utterly powerless.
I'm currently receiving therapy after an abusive relationship which included rape, it ended a long time ago but I'd never really processed those feelings. Plus I didn't even appreciate that's what was happening as a) he was my partner, and b) it was more just allowing him to do what he wanted to me because the alternative (physical hurt) wasn't worth it.
But then you learn that only 1% of rape cases end in prosecution - you pretty much need a witness or confession! I never thought about it until it was brought up in my therapy group that any member of the public can sit on a jury and bring in their preconceptions. There's a famous case I've followed closely and almost every comment from men implies that it's false allegations, the woman is a gold digger, she deserved it due to what she was wearing/past history, women lie all the time etc etc etc. just this morning someone responded to me calling me a 'slag' - just for disagreeing with female abuse.
Question is what the hell can be done about it?! Apparently there is a petition to get any jury members in this type of case to undertake 'rape myth' training but I doubt it will do much good. I know I'll never get justice for myself but I just feel so powerless that so many others never will either! I'd love to be able to actively do something about this but I'm at a total loss...
Thanks for reading if you got this far and Merry Christmas!