But the individual man is already 'winning' by virtue of his male privilege. Even if we reduce the conversation to financial terms, an extra 5% tax on his salary will on average be cancelled by the gender pay gap.
I was responding to the implication that all men actively choose violence by virtue of being born male - even those who very actively do not.
But now you mention the gender pay gap, plenty of men earn less than plenty of women do on an individual level. This is why personal taxation is levied based on individual circumstances - meaning that those who earn more (disproportionately men) thus pay more tax (also disproportionately men) - clever, eh?
Are you seriously asking for studied evidence that bringing a child up in a clear backdrop of negativity, shame, worthlessness, lack of encouragement and low expectations is much more likely to lead to them not ending up as a well-adjusted, happy, confident adult with a healthy outlook and self-esteem? Just look around you. You could always look into the demographics of the prison population correlated with levels of deprivation, abusive/neglectful parenting and low social status if you need the proof of that that most people understand as obvious.
Again, I don't quite get why you appear to see violence and taxation as pretty much the same thing. However much high earners don't want to be made to pay more taxes or see it as unfair, it's clearly arisen as a direct result of their intelligence, drive, success, hard work and/or dedication - all very positive traits.
It is not generally considered shameful to be a lower earner and thus a lower/none tax-payer; whereas it IS generally considered shameful to be violent. The one is choosing to climb the ladder to rise above the norm; whereas the other is choosing to sink below the baseline social expectations.