As an adult, I've only been in hospital when I've had a baby so my experience is limited.
Female doctor who performed the sweep asked me why I was crying. Before I had chance to answer, a midwife told her it was probably the shock of the days events and being told my baby would die if I didn't have an EMCS in the middle of the night.
Male anesthetist who sat behind my head stroking my hair and telling me how brave and amazing I was - amazing.
I don't often see a GP but I've seen male and female ones for mental and women's health and they've both been brilliant.
Male and female GPs/hospital doctors for both my children - no complaints of either.
I did have a male GP many years ago who didn't make my referral for a termination because he didn't agree with it but, other than that, I've not found there to be much difference.