I've been with this man for two years. For the past year, he's been off sick with depression. He's on his second type of AD's and has had eight weeks of councelling.
If anything, he's far worse now than when he was originally signed off work.
He's constantly telling me how terrible his life is, how there is no point anymore. He's even threatened sucide.
We have massive financial problems now, due to him refusing to claim benefits and making it difficult for me to do it for him. His solution is to make himself a financial burden on me, his friends and his family as it is easier than filling in a few forms.
There seems to be nothing I can say or do which has any impact on him. Nothing. It seems like he is determined to destroy his life no matter what.
I'm seriously tempted to walk away simply for my own mental health, but my conscience won't let me.
How do I cope??