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Does anyone know anything about EMDR therapy?

11 replies

whatname · 03/06/2010 14:52

Trying to read up about it but kinda going round in circles.
anyone have any first hand experience? or know any counsellors?
My H has been to the counsellor at his work(first big step)and she thinks this is the way to go.

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adelicatequestion · 05/06/2010 19:55

I have just started with an emdr therapist for ptsd and haven;t got to teh emdr bit yet!

She has been very thorough in getting my history.

Will keep you informed. Am very encouraged so far.

cocolepew · 05/06/2010 19:56

My DD has had it for intrusive thoughts, we all were very impressed with it.

zachsmama · 05/06/2010 21:26

I have just had something similar to emdr called brainspotting for ptsd following birth trauma and it was amazing. I can't begin to explain the difference it has made to my life.

blushingm · 05/06/2010 21:44

what is emdr - i've not heard of it

whatname · 06/06/2010 08:37

some info here

DH is going to see a therapist who thinks this might work. He has a lot of issues, kinda post traumatic. childhood abuse and then military!
He can't deal with a lot of things, stress, really needs to be in control(not in a controlling way, but if things are out of control he freaks)

fingers crossed we get some results

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whatname · 06/06/2010 08:38

thank you all, all sounds encouraging

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Mithered · 06/06/2010 09:24

Yes me!
I had it last year and it worked for me at the time.I do still have tendencies towards depression but my therapist gave me a CD so when I am working myself up I put it on.

I had had CBT before but because logically I understand the problem but couldn't get my brain to change the way it thought EMDR really did it. It changes the neurological pathways in your brain.

Just ask away..

whatname · 07/06/2010 10:03

Thanks Mithered, so does it try to change the way you think? and the way you react?

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Mithered · 10/06/2010 20:42

Hi whatname - sorry been busy in RL

EMDR basically tries to change the way you have remembered events which cause you the problems. So when you remember a traumatic event it has come from back of brain to front. By talking about this event whilst doing EMDR it changes the pathway so your brain doesn't remember it the same.

I found the memories I have of childhood/painful events dont' have the same effect on me, therefore I react in different ways. I am not saying I am completely cured but I am a hell of a lot better than I was.

It is very effective with PTSD. A lot of police forces are starting to use it with staff so sounds like it may be effective for your H

whatname · 24/06/2010 20:43

Sorry Mithered, been away on hols.

What I don't really understand is how this will help him with his day to day stress. His trauma makes him the person that he is.. he has to be organised, in control. If anything goes wrong, he reacts in such an unreasonable way, its unbearable.
I feel like he needs something like an AA buddy to vent to.
I can understand wanting to change painful memories, but don't really understand how it links in to his day to day processes.
He has only spoken to counsellor on the phone a couple of times. Back to reality now after hols, so will be sorting it out properly soon

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tb · 01/07/2010 19:26

I have experienced it on several occasions and with 2 different practitioners - 1 male and 1 female.

It was discovered by a psychotherapist (I think) in the US called Shapiro. She noticed while walking her dogs that if you used the rapid eye movements that occur naturally while dreaming while thinhking about a distressing or traumatising past event in your life it helps reduce the itensity of the memory, and eventually it just becomes something that happened in the past.

I suffered from ptsd relating to being sexually abused as a child and being bullied by my mother to the extent of having an unsuccessful attempt at suicide when I was 16.

With ptsd, the event doesn't get dealt with and keeps coming up to the surface all the time, without often any trigger occurring. EMDR helps file it away in its proper place like anything else you may have done, say 10 years ago.

Can recommend it, however, for anyone having it for the first time, you can be very 'open' to external stimuli afterwards. I went to see the file Babe the night after and all the closeups of faces triggered something from my past, and I ran home and ended up in a screaming heap under the kitchen table.

I have since managed to come out.

There is an emdr site that lists all practitioners and the level of qualification that they have.

Good luck

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