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Voices in head - anyone have any experience of this

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unsureaboutthis · 11/03/2010 20:30

my dp has recently confided in me that he has for years and years had voices in his head. They have always been very negative voices telling him to do 'bad' things. He said as a young boy / teenager he would do what the voices told him after being persuaded by them. As an adult he argues back with the voices and refuses to do as the voices say. They never go away and come to him at night a lot as well as one particular nightmare that keeps him awake and in the horrors for hours at night.

I'm so shocked at this as he is one of the nicest men I have ever met, so popular and friendly. I have no experience of this at all and really would like to help / support him.

Any ideas anyone?

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GetDownYouWillFall · 12/03/2010 15:38

Persistent voices in the head, telling you to do something or consistently negative / destructive is one symptom of psychosis. Does he have any other symptoms? (see below from NHS site)

I would recommend he goes to see the GP, or ask for referral to Community Mental Health Team (CMHT). There are medications that can keep these kind of symptoms under control.

Symptoms of psychotic episodes

There are four main symptoms associated with a psychotic episode:

  • hallucinations,
  • delusions,
  • confused and disturbed thoughts, and
  • a lack of insight and self-awareness.

Hallucinations

A hallucination is when you think you perceive something that does not exist in reality. Hallucinations can occur in all five of your senses as outlined below.

  • Sight - someone with psychosis may see colours and shapes, or imaginary people, or animals.
  • Sounds - someone with psychosis may hear voices that are angry, unpleasant or sarcastic.
  • Touch - a common psychotic hallucination is that insects are crawling on the skin.
  • Smell - usually a strange, or unpleasant, smell.
  • Taste - some people with psychosis have complained of having a constant unpleasant taste in their mouth.

Delusion

A delusion is having an unshakable belief in something that is implausible, bizarre or obviously untrue. There are two common types of psychotic delusion that are described below.

Paranoid delusion

A person with psychosis will often believe that an individual or organisation is making plans to hurt or kill them, which in turn can lead to unusual behaviour. For example, a person with psychosis may refuse to be in the same room as a mobile phone because they believe they are actually mind-control devices.

Delusions of grandeur

A person with psychosis may have delusions of grandeur where they believe that they have some imaginary power, or authority. For example, they may think they are president of a country, or that they have the power to bring people back from the dead.
Confusion of thought

People with psychosis often have disturbed, confused and disrupted patterns of thought. Signs of this include:

  • their speech may be rapid and constant,
  • the content of their speech appears random; they may switch from one topic to another in mid-sentence, and
  • their train of thought may suddenly stop, resulting in an abrupt pause in conversation or activity.

Lack of insight

People who are experiencing a psychotic episode often totally unaware that their behaviour is in any way strange, or that the delusions or hallucinations that they are experiencing could be imaginary.

They may be capable of recognising delusional or bizarre behaviour in others, but lack the self-awareness to recognise it themself. A person with psychosis who is being treated in a psychiatric ward will often complain that all of their fellow patients are mentally ill while they are perfectly normal.

unsureaboutthis · 13/03/2010 15:25

Thank you very much for you detailed response Getdownyouwillfall. He does not have any of the other symptoms you mention, its in the main at night particularly if he is in the house alone. He has the same reoccurring nightmare most nights. In the day he is mostly ok although in the past it was a problem day and night. His rational mind tells him there is no voice and to ignore it but he does find himself telling the voice to go away or that the voice is wrong in what its saying. Hope this makes sense.

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