Autumnmists- I have been on the 60mg dose for some months now- like you, I built up from a smaller dose.
Yes its's a lot, but you know what, it has helped!
The little things that began to send me over the edge are now just a bit of my day, the everyday grind is just that bit easier to deal with now. My memory has also improved. Also reduced the frequency of migraines I've endured for a long time now.
The most monumental improvement for me is that for the first time in years, I am actually getting some sleep.
Downside? Yes. Bit of weight gain (nothing too dramatic) and zero energy some days.
Overall though, my quality of sleep and life has increased tenfold and life is a lot less daunting on a daily basis.
Finally, I can give some clarity to the point raised by Cyncyn. Yes it's a high dose, but the recent change in advice is that GP's do not prescribe 40mg or over to those over-60 due to heart-related complications. The current advice states that higher doses in those below 60 is perfectly safe. "Too many negative things can happen" is not very accurate and a bit of a scary sweeping statement(apologies Cyncyn)- this is a drug which may suit one individual and not others, Only your GP can advise safely on this.
I've posted on this because I've been exactly where you are and can only say that the little extra dose every day has helped me. I hope it does for you too, but there are many alternatives. This is not the first type I've tried, but with some help from a great GP, I'm feeling a lot more optimistic these past few months.
I'd love to hear from anybody else in a similar position-these threads are very helpful with issues such as this.
Best of luck Autumnmist!