I've had PND since October last year. I'm taking Citalopram 40mg, seeing a psychiatrist monthly and having weekly counselling.
DH has been a great help and support all the way since I first got ill - helping out round the house more and being there for me, taking up as much of the slack I've left as he can considering he works full time.
Problem is that DH has a high sex drive. I used to have one too prior to the PND. Up until recently I've been forcing myself to cater to his needs as it were to keep him happy but just recently I haven't been able to do this. He's not 'getting any' and he's really not happy about it. He's constantly trying it on, groping. Getting stroppy when I say no.
His patience is starting to wear thin with everything - I can't talk to him about how I'm feeling now as he just huffs and walks off, he's starting to not take up the slack any more so things don't get done.....
I'm generally feeling better day on day, the good days are far more frequent than the bad days so I'm wondering if reducing my anti depressant dose might make me more in the mood?
I really feel the lack of sex could kill this marriage.