want to walk out right now and not come back.

[unfitmummy]

i've got 3 1/2 year old and a 4 month old. had pnd after dd1. today have hit a new low and just want to get out.

hi, thanks for replying. i couldn't get the energy to say anything.
i think the problem is that my husband has been away with work for 3 weeks and came back on wednesday morning. he has been wallowing in jet lagged tiredness since then and i've been ignored. does my tired state at having looked after the kids myself for 3 weeks not count? i had suggested we went out for lunch dinner but he was 'too tired'. now beginning to wonder if .... i can't even type it... if something happened while he's away.(ie someone else).
but there is a little voice reminding me that one of my first symptons of pnd last time was not talking to my dh and not really wanting him anywhere near me. i really don't want to go through all this again. i thought i was going to be ok.

talk to him. switch off tv/computer/mobile etc so you have his full attention and he has yours.....................trust me i'm stuggling since dd was born nearly 3 years ago but don't bottle it up or hide how you feel from your dp

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UFM. I can really relate to what you are going through... I am not sure you should blame PND. You are coping well. What you are NOT coping well with is being taken for granted.

MY DH works away all week. I am expected to keep the house clean and tidy, look after DS (He never so much as changes a nappy) and work. ( I work from home around DS) I do often feel totally uncared for. DH comes home and immediately annouces that 'he is tired'. No Shit Sherlock!!! What the F do you think I do?????????????

Please DO talk to him and other people. DO NOT make this your problem. IM(VH)O, I don't think it's PND. PND makes it your problem and I think this is more about how you feel you are treated.