Please or to access all these features

Mental health

Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention.

OCDWill I ever get better?

5 replies

wildflower93 · 04/05/2026 06:31

I’ve just woken up after a nightmare, I can’t remember what happened other than my whole body is shaking.

My OCD is so bad it’s absolutely taking over my life. I will go weeks without a worry or ‘theme.’ And then it comes back and hits me.

The current theme is asbestos in my house. My son’s play sand has tested positive and whilst I’ve cleaned it up, I am finding tiny bits in all sorts of crevices around the house. In little gaps between floorboard and radiator. Underneath the beading where we kept
his tuff tray. I loved making sensory tables for him and would put all his toys and tools in and he’d play for hours. I would then hoover all the sand up 🙃

I’m convinced we will all die from this play sand and the fact that there’s no test or anything that can be done - it absolutely plagues me!

I receive private therapy, I go to meditation, I am medicated, I’ve gone back and forth to the doctors and I’m getting more intensive therapy (180 day wait) and I’ve recently started hypnotherapy to try and calm my nervous system.

What else can I do? Is this just who I am and I’m resigned to a life of ok periods followed by the intense doom ?

OP posts:
wildflower93 · 04/05/2026 08:13

Any guidance ? I just want rid of OCD.

OP posts:
Ralphschocolate · 04/05/2026 08:17

I can't offer advice but you have my deepest sympathies. My 18 year old daughter lives with OCD and it's truly debilitating. Anyone who says they're a little bit OCD because they like things clean and tidy makes me want to scream.

Worriedmrs · 04/05/2026 08:18

What kind of therapy are you getting? I was plagued with overthinking because of my OCD to the extent of getting dizzy and unable to sleep some days. I was referred for CBT for other reasons but it immensely helped with my intrusive thoughts. I am not cured, the thoughts still pop up but I can ignore them more easily.

wildflower93 · 04/05/2026 08:21

Worriedmrs · 04/05/2026 08:18

What kind of therapy are you getting? I was plagued with overthinking because of my OCD to the extent of getting dizzy and unable to sleep some days. I was referred for CBT for other reasons but it immensely helped with my intrusive thoughts. I am not cured, the thoughts still pop up but I can ignore them more easily.

I’m waiting on intensive CBT for it. Currently getting CBT for anxiety privately as I can’t afford the £125 for the ERP privately

OP posts:
Overthebow · 04/05/2026 08:22

Did his play sand actually test positive for asbestos or was that what happened in your nightmare?

New posts on this thread. Refresh page