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Rented rooms, landlords son and mental health

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njg575 · 29/01/2026 13:51

The house next door is rented out, and the landlord’s adult son lives there alone. He has shared that he has mental health struggles and at times his behaviour can be unpredictable and difficult.

As he is not working, his mother rents out the other rooms in the property. This seems to cause him significant distress, and there is a frequent turnover of tenants. In the past, police have attended following an altercations with housemates, and tenants often move out quickly due to a combination of the condition of the house and ongoing tensions.

He appears to struggle when there are multiple tenants in the property and becomes increasingly agitated. There have also been repeated issues over the years with antisocial behaviour, disturbances, and police attendance. More recently, his behaviour seems to have escalated. I’ve witnessed him shouting at passers-by, talking to people who are not there, punching his car, and appearing very distressed and attracting increasing attention. The rooms are now being advertised again, and I’m increasingly concerned that someone could be hurt.

There are also practical concerns. He sometimes forgets about cooking or household tasks, and struggles with tradespeople attending the property, therefore the place is in a mess. There may also be elements of self-neglect, which previous tenants have found difficult to live with hygeine wise.

Aside from finding it increasingly hard to live next door to this situation I’d really appreciate any advice from others who may have experienced something similar, particularly around the landlord’s responsibilities in situations like this because she is a direct relative. The tenants seem to bring their own issues which makes it a very volatile situation.

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Nearly50omg · 29/01/2026 13:54

Call adult social services and report then

njg575 · 29/01/2026 15:49

Social services have been contacted numerous times, I guess its jusy not an urgent case right now. But it is very wearing and affecting my quality of life. I've been understanding previously but that doesnt mean I have to be subjected to his behaviour.

In terms of landlord responsibility, there is a clear pattern of high tenent turnover and no risk management. Its like the landlord prioritises rental income over safety.

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DaisyChain505 · 29/01/2026 16:01

Do you have the landlords phone number and have you let them know any of this information?

AbbaDabbaDooh · 29/01/2026 16:23

Can you report the property to the council? In case proper regulations aren't being followed.

Agree it feels like he's being used for an income but not actually getting the support he needs.

It's either a mortgaged property in which case are they allowed tenants.....

Or it's not in which case the son should be claiming benefits, which would mean that if he's not able to work he should get PIP and possibly universal credit. But not sure benefits can normally be used to pay rent to a family member or there are restrictions around circumstances.

Benefits should be enough to cover food, water, heating.

Report every incident to police and refer to social services to raise safeguarding concerns around possible financial abuse, neglect etc., need for a mental health assessment.

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