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Being managed out of work - pregnant advised needed

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LondonFoodie61 · 23/09/2025 15:13

Hi,

I'm currently pregnant (only 5 weeks so early days) and being managed out of my job based on alleged 'performance issues'. My employer doesn't know I'm pregnant.

Since returning from maternity leave I returned part time, but I feel like I've been set up to fail. I have been put on full time projects with excessive workloads, unrealistic deadlines and demands with a huge team to produce work for. I have replaced full time team members (same role and level) who were previously on the project full time, and am expected to manage the same workload part time. I raised the need for more resource multiple times but this was not addressed. I have been managing this by doing significant amounts of overtime on my non working days, evenings and weekends. This has not been sustainable as I have a toddler to look after on my non working days.

This has now really affected my mental health and I am so burnt out. I was having heart palpitations and couldn't sleep and ended up crying most of the day. So I've been signed off with stress for a few weeks.

I have been offered to take a settlement package (they haven't said yet how much), or to return to work on a PIP which I can imagine will be horrible given my managers bullying tendances when not on a pip. I can't imagine this will be easy to pass given the unrealistic expectations when not on a pip.

I haven't told them I am pregnant yet (only 5 weeks so very early). Should I tell them? Does anyone have any advice, or have had a similar situation? Feeling very vulnerable and so so upset, as both options listed above will mean I won't get my maternity enhanced pay or statutory pay. So I'm feeling extremely stressed about the finances and being jobless.

Thanks in advance

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OhTheProblemIsDefinitelyMe · 23/09/2025 16:28

Maybe speak to Acas, they will be able to offer some advice re the pip and the unreasonable work load for starters.
So sorry you are having to deal with this, just wanted to bump in case someone knowledgeable sees this and comes along to help.
I have to say MH is often pretty quiet though, maybe post on the WORK and LEGAL threads. I hope things work out okay Flowers

newnamewhoopwhoop · 23/09/2025 16:33

Contact charity called ‘pregnant then screwed’.
they may be able to advise next steps.

spicetails · 23/09/2025 16:35

This sounds like you have a claim for constructive dismissal.

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