Hello,
apologies as I know this is mumsnet but I am a dad who feels completely helpless. My partner keeps walking out on me and our 2 girls. 3 years and 8 months. When it was just the one things were fine and life was easy but since the second has arrived everything has gone wrong. Our youngest has had multiple issues since birth that do not seem to get better. We have a paediatrician who seems to think she will get better as she gets bigger but currently we can’t see an ending. My partner keeps expressing how she hates her life and wants her old life back of the three of us. I am being given ultimatums such as taking the youngest which I would do if it helped but I am still expected to pay all the bills and get somewhere else. The alternative is her leaving. I don’t want either to happen as I try to explain I need to work as I am the only income but either way she is refusing to help with childcare and won’t allow any family members to help. I don’t know if anyone has felt this way and got through this. I have called our GP with my concerns but they have just said that she would have to talk to them which she won’t I’m scared that this is not only affecting me but our children any advice would be greatly appreciated