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thewiltedrose · 27/05/2008 15:38

I have just been told what im thought of here so i am leaving mumsnet for good now. Thank you to the people that helped me and thought of me. Im sory for being such a bitch i should have known even a forum would be better off without me just like my kids. Bye.

OP posts:
Quadrophenia · 27/05/2008 15:56

Is someone handing out boots so everyone can kick the poster when she is down?

Kassius · 27/05/2008 15:56

I disagree - I think that mostly attention seekers gain nothing helpful from the attention they crave.
They need to find REAL ways of getting through life. But your right i'll keave this thread now.

lilolilmanchester · 27/05/2008 15:57

so wiltedrose, if you really need support, as you can see, there are plenty of people here for you, regardless of what's gone before.....

ScoobyDoo · 27/05/2008 15:57

Ok ok i apologise, i should have kept my mouth shut, i actually would not have said what i did if i had looked at where this had be posted.

Sorry TWR i hope you are ok & please don't do anything silly, your children do need you. x

Lazylou · 27/05/2008 15:58

Agreed. I think the 'attention seeker' posts are uncalled for. Yes TWR did respond in an insensitive way, but she has apologised, the sitaution has been pointed out to her.

I think TWR's final comment is hardly attention seeking, more worrying actually and should be given the same respect as others have been given.

AMumInScotland · 27/05/2008 15:58

That's not meant to sound unsupportive by the way, just suggesting you take a couple of deep breaths and get back a bit of equilibrium before giving up on something which can provide you with support - we all make mistakes, and sometimes post without realising all the background. That's one of the things about MN - people sometimes start a thread which is a long way through their journey and assume that people understand what had gone before.

Quadrophenia · 27/05/2008 15:58

I actually think if wr did not know the history (as I do not) her comments weren't actually that harsh, in fact i believe they were coming from a willingness to help.

I love it that one person on that thread thought it was the time and the place to put the boot in, so others just couldn't help themselves

lilolilmanchester · 27/05/2008 15:58

well done scoobydoo

ScoobyDoo · 27/05/2008 16:01

No no i do not want to kick anyone when they are down, i do not know TWR story & as i said a minute ago i should have looked where this was posted ie: mental health & i would not have said what i did.

Cheesesarnie please get off your high horse!

cheesesarnie · 27/05/2008 16:03

im not on a high horse(what did i say??)i cant ride horses.

JeremyVile · 27/05/2008 16:03

TWR - Please go back and look at the comment that upset you.

It really was not meant in the way you think.

And I agree that you were trying to make the op see sense and meant no harm.

Tortington · 27/05/2008 16:03

scoobydoo said she was sorry

does sorry mean fuck all

TWR said she was sorry

sorry
sorry
sorry

fuck and me

Doobydoo · 27/05/2008 16:06

Thewiltedrose.I haven't seen any of your posts before but for what its worth i spend quite abit of time apologising or putting my foot in it.Don't leave because of that or i will have to as wellI have just seen the pics of your boys they are completely gorgeous.I have 2 as well..it is bloody knackering at times isn't it?They look really cheeky and happy

blinkingthreetimes · 27/05/2008 16:08

TWR--- I am sorry if I came across as harsh I am very upset today I have had no sleep after spending a night in the hospital with my dd and then found out this morning she has the same bug which cused the death of my dd.

Not an excuse I overreacted and I am sorry it's probably not a good idea to come on MN when you feel this shitty.

I am not going to flounce though and i suggest you don't either by the sounds of it we both need the support network.

MargaretMountford · 27/05/2008 16:10

hey Wilted - don't know what the history of all this is but you mustn't go - your boys need you -they're lovely- please stay..

notjustmom · 27/05/2008 16:14

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MrsWeasley · 27/05/2008 16:14

oh blinkingthreetimes sorry to hear that. Are you and DD ok?

cheesesarnie · 27/05/2008 16:15

lol

cheesesarnie · 27/05/2008 16:15

blinkingthreetimes how awful for you!

lilolilmanchester · 27/05/2008 16:16

(my comment was a genuine "well done ScoobyDoo" for apologising - thought that was really good of you - it wasn't a sarcastic post, just realised it might have been seen as ambiguous!)

So, TWR, you can't go now can you - see what you've started?!!

blinkingthreetimes · 27/05/2008 16:17

Yes she is ok TY .I started a thread in health this morning she has bronchoilitis and it is just a worry with our history but she is a lot bigger and stronger then our first dd just that my nerves are a little stretched today.

Doobydoo · 27/05/2008 16:18

Oh blinking.Thinking of you of course you will be worried.I am sorry.

cheesesarnie · 27/05/2008 16:21

blinkingthreetimes- i think my nerves would be stretched too.thinking of you and your dd

VictorianSqualor · 27/05/2008 16:23

Thankfully we aren't all in bad moods or posting unthoughtfully because of tough times.

I could easily post 'should've known you'd make it all about you blinkingthreetimes' But I shan't.

Some peopel could really do with takng a leaf out of OJ/Martianbishops books sometimes.

cheesesarnie · 27/05/2008 16:24

very true vs