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When it all gets too much..... bereavement & sibling conflict

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SecondDawn · 15/07/2025 19:06

I’ve suffered from anxiety for as long as I can remember — since primary school, I was always tense, worried, and on edge. Over the years, I’ve found ways to cope I guess but the last 2 years have been the worst of my life.

Mum died suddenly. She was my best friend and I'm still devastated.

We've just sold her house. Its not just the grief of letting go of the family home, but it was the conflict that came with it. My sister has been unpleasant and hostile throughout the process, and it’s left me feeling utterly drained. Her behaviour has gone far beyond just disagreement — she blames me for the house going despite it being mums wish in her will

The combination of grief, anxiety, and ongoing conflict has left me traumatised. I’ve been feeling depressed and physically ill. Some days I can barely function.

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Eyesopenwideawake · 15/07/2025 19:11

How do you mean "she blames me for the house going despite it being mums wish in her will"? Did she want to keep the house?

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