Hello everyone, first time posting. So on Friday I my employment was terminated after 24 years at local government for something I didn't know I was doing wrong. My 10 year old son is ADHD and ASD and I applied for an EHCP for him which was rejected in January, they failed to send me the appeal letter for mediation with the rejection letter and ongoing chasing to get this to no avail. I logged an official complaint which I should have got a reply in 10 working days. Day 24 came and nothing so I tried to escalate it and accessed what I thought I could as I created it. The head of the department complained that I emailed and it blew up an investigation of a security breach that I had tried to expedite my complaint which I clearly didn't as if they had given updates the complaint wouldn't have been made in the first place. We have real struggles on a daily basis with our boy we knew that a normal mainstream school would be throwing him in to a lions den so we needed a special school, one that he could do GCSE's as he is clever hence the need for an ECHP. Now being ADHD myself I have my struggles also more so the shortage in medication. This has also had a detrimental effect on my mental heath as I feel in life nothing has been straight forward and have had to struggle to get things.
Can anyone give any advice as I am going to appeal the decision as they have been really harsh with it. I know I have done wrong now but at the time I didn't, I expected a final written warning at most but they said I should have known the policies etc. There are that many so it's difficult to process everything with my brain. They said that it was serious misconduct even so they didn't deem it serious enough to suspend me or report it to the ICO. This happened in March so 4 months I have had to go Ito work with worry, people noticing I am not my chatty self and me having to lie to friends and colleagues saying I have issues at home.