Me and my partner have been debating trying for a 3rd child for a while, I’ve always felt like I’d have one more, but he was unsure. He now feels ready, but I can’t help but now feel anxious about having a third.
I worry that having a third c section comes with high risk to myself and then the prospect of leaving behind two children. I worry that my two current children won’t accept a third (they have a very good bond). I worry about our house not being big enough and two of them having to share.
On the other hand, financially we are stable enough for a third, we adore our children and would love to have another one to add to the mix. I’ve always wanted a big family having been an only child.
anyone share anything if they’ve felt in the same boat at all?