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Anyone suffer with Health Anxiety?

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KPA22 · 22/03/2025 22:25

Hi everyone

I have been suffering with HA for as long as I can remember. Particularly around cancer and for some reason my thoughts link cancer to death, I can never think that the NHS would be able to help me and that if I get cancer I will die. I have personally been affected by death from cancer but I know more people that have survived from it. I've had CBT which has helped a bit but my auntie who is only 41 has been diagnosed with breast cancer for a second time and it's thrown me back to the beginning. Anyone else have any tips how I can stop spiralling? TIA x

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whatnoooow · 22/03/2025 22:49

Yep. I have OCD any it tends to cling on to health anxiety things (as well as thinking I might have run someone over and not realised 🫣) Treatment wise, an SSRI is the best thing for it.

It’s difficult because your instincts (illness) tell you you’ll probably have a really bad allergic reaction, or you’ll develop some sort of horrific side effect, but you won’t.

Mygosh · 22/03/2025 23:05

Did your CBT therapist give you links to resources? I suffer with anxiety about everything and understand how crippling it can be.

My therapist recommends practicing the techniques regularly, an 8 hour course (for example) is simply not enough for some people. This is an amazing link he gave me. Hope it helps.

www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself

user4578 · 22/03/2025 23:13

Why helps me most is getting outside, working with the soil. Could be digging, planting seeds, pruning. Having something physical helps to calm the nervous system and I don’t know why the outdoors does it but it does help. Then I try and accept what life might throw at me, any new symptom I have to wait 2 weeks before making a doctors appointment if I am still worried.

KPA22 · 24/03/2025 06:04

Mygosh · 22/03/2025 23:05

Did your CBT therapist give you links to resources? I suffer with anxiety about everything and understand how crippling it can be.

My therapist recommends practicing the techniques regularly, an 8 hour course (for example) is simply not enough for some people. This is an amazing link he gave me. Hope it helps.

www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/Resources/Looking-After-Yourself

They did at the time but nothing that I could go back to if I needed too so thank you for this. I will have a look. X

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KPA22 · 24/03/2025 06:08

user4578 · 22/03/2025 23:13

Why helps me most is getting outside, working with the soil. Could be digging, planting seeds, pruning. Having something physical helps to calm the nervous system and I don’t know why the outdoors does it but it does help. Then I try and accept what life might throw at me, any new symptom I have to wait 2 weeks before making a doctors appointment if I am still worried.

Funny you should say that because I get out with the dog when I can and it helps in the short term. I think that's what I need to do accept life's plan. When I had my CBT they said I have a intolerance of uncertainty but obviously there are things in life where you cannot be certain

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Worridoncemore · 24/03/2025 15:05

Me! I've suffered to varying degrees for more than 10 years. It's got so much worse the last 3 years, I think a combination of perimenopause & my age (50s), especially as I'm now approaching the age both my dad & my mil were when they were diagnosed and then died of cancer. It doesn't help that many peers have developed health problems recently, some of them cancer and the c word is constantly all over the media!

I had cbt a couple of years ago which helped a bit but before long I drifted back into my old ways of googling & self checking. Medication seems to help many people but I had a bad experience with sertraline which gave me a rare side effect of scary bruising, landing me in a&e and making my anxiety even worse, so won't try anything else.

The link posted by @mygosh looks excellent so I will take the time to look at it fully, thanks for posting that!

Enigma53 · 24/03/2025 16:10

Keep your body and mind active, to stop the spiralling. Cancer is everywhere; on the TV, adverts, posters and in the news. It’s part of many peoples lives.

I have cancer ( 4th time unlucky!) I’m on chemo and it’s horrid.

If you get diagnosed, you will have to deal with it. In the meantime, distract yourself with work, hobbies etc?

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