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Getting to the end of my tether.

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Spooky2000 · 20/02/2025 19:54

Come for a bit of a rant, really.

A couple of years ago my ex did assaulted me really seriously. He was arrested but not charged and it was NFA'd. I did a complaint to the police at the time and a Victim Review with the CPS as a lot of evidence had not been collected/missed. Response: no action, all above board as far as they're concerned. This year my ex accused me of something, too. I was arrested this time, but my career is in jeopardy as a result of his allegations. I have badgered and badgered the police for information on what's happening and not even received a reply. So, another complaint went in. Response: no action, all above board as far as they're concerned.

I was referred for some DV support and someone should have been in touch by now - two phone calls to them in the last week and still no support.

I loathe the job that I'm in and have spent my time off looking for something else - nothing. I work in a niche area I suppose, and there's been nothing advertised that I could apply for.

Then the house that I put an offer in, the EA didn't forward the offer. Again, I put a complaint in. Response: no action, terribly sorry but we've no record of your offer and someone else has now bought the house.

I know I'm being self-pitying here, but I really feel like the world is against me atm, and I feel like screaming! I don't feel suicidal or anything, just very very angry at what is (isn't!) happening in my life right now. I really could hit something.

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Summerhillsquare · 21/02/2025 05:04

So, do - I find a good pumelling of a pillow cathartic or lifting some weights.

Seems to be bad luck comes although often, "they come not in single spies but in battalions" as Shakespeare said.

Summerhillsquare · 21/02/2025 05:05

Summerhillsquare · 21/02/2025 05:04

So, do - I find a good pumelling of a pillow cathartic or lifting some weights.

Seems to be bad luck comes although often, "they come not in single spies but in battalions" as Shakespeare said.

Altogether often

Spooky2000 · 21/02/2025 09:28

Thanks for replying. I'm still really upset today. The vet hasn't forwarded my insurance claim either for the meds for my dog, so that's £700 I'm short of, although they've had the request for a week now. I've just HAD IT. Really had it. I just to be getting absolutely nowhere in my life, no matter how much effort I'm putting in. I cried most of last night, crying again this morning. It is all just so shit. I just feel that as I'm not a local in this town that I'm being thwarted at every turn. I don't know what to do or where to turn any more.

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