A sibling of mine has been through a rough 6/7 years. Painful divorce, FND, health anxiety. She hasn’t yet managed to get herself on an even keel. One day she’s talking through how awful her marriage was, the next she thinks she’s made a mistake divorcing him. I’ve suggested various things to help. But, she seems reluctant to even try and pick herself up and to move on. Six years divorced. I’ve suggested she retrain to get a better job, I’ll help her find a place to live (she’s at my parents for 7 years). I’ve talked her through various illnesses and tried to help her find resources and medical help. I’m reluctant to share any happy things that happen in my life as it seems to make her more unhappy. It’s a real balancing act, giving her some support but not telling her how I really think (come on - it’s time to move on). I’m not sure how to proceed really. She leans on me for daily support. Am I enabling her?