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I feel broken

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Billyvanillie · 21/12/2024 17:14

For 10 years I have been battling to get help for my daughter, its been impossible and she is no better just worse. This has made me so numb, infact I don't want to be here anymore as I hate the constant feeling of dispare, disappointment and hate for myself. I wouldn't do anything as I would never hurt my son, but often it's a chore to breath. I don't share my feelings with my partner because he doesn't understand, his only son from a previous relationship is getting on well and he has no problems or worries. Infact he often mocks me for feeling so low, I would just like one day where everything would go well. I look at other people and their lives run smoothly with minimal crap. Today, I was told fk off you ct , I then had to go to work, put on my mask and be happy. I never ever hurt people I go out of my way to be kind and helpful with people who need help, but I always get mammouth tasks and hardship as if I attract it. I see the nasty school bullies or absolute ws in life get along so beautifully and it makes me want to curl into a ball. This is not a feel sorry for me post, I just need to tell someone.

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Eyesopenwideawake · 21/12/2024 17:18

I look at other people and their lives run smoothly with minimal crap.

They really don't, you know - a quick glance at the posts on here proves that, sadly.

However, knowing other people are quietly in crisis is of no use to you right here, right now. What's the issue with your daughter?

Billyvanillie · 21/12/2024 17:58

Adhd,bdp,TLE (from drugs) anxiety dissorder.
I have tried to get her help. CAMHS were a huge let down, at the age of 13 they said she is not poorly enough, if she talks of or attempt suicide we will get involved. Young Minds refused to help because her dyslexia & Dyscalculia is classed as a LD and they don't offer help for LD.
We tried councillors, hypnotherapy, spiritual therapy....you name it. Trying to get meds for ADHD but apparently it will clash with her anxiety. She has a lovely partner but has recently been treating her like she treats me, making her cry often and I want to tell her to go because I don't want her broken because of my daughter.
I will not have any Christmas drinks this year incase I need to drive in an emergency for her. I hate this time of year

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FionaSkates · 21/12/2024 18:23

Is she under a psychiatrist at the moment OP? X

Billyvanillie · 21/12/2024 20:49

No, trying but on the never ending list.
I have had to self fund everything else including her ADHD diagnosis

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