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Dealing with long term anxiety

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padampada · 16/09/2024 11:19

I'll try and condense 10 years here...I was a mentally well person in a teaching job and then some terrible things happened in the school I worked at which coincided with terrible things happening in my personal life.

I couldn't cope with my job and left it for an admin role. I began to feel better but then eventually realised that changing job wasn't enough to fix me and went on a low dose of sertraline. I felt so much better. So much so that I went back into teaching, loved it and agreed to take on more responsibility. I felt so well that I decided to come off sertraline - a mistake. One Ofsted inspection later and I was back on sertraline and eventually left that job to focus on my kids.

I've been lucky enough to be able to survive on a low paid role. I'm not on sertraline now. I've just started a new teaching role as I need more money. The school is lovely, the workload is intense but manageable but the horrible anxious thoughts are back. I don't sleep well, my stomach is in knots. I'm worried about crying at work. It is all so irrational as the team do genuinely seem lovely. It's just I have seem the very worst of people in my previous role. I think the feeling of constantly being monitored messes with my head.

Do I go back to my GP and ask for sertraline again? Does it matter to be on it long term? I've never been offered talking therapy but I know I can self refer. Has anyone found that helpful? I clearly have issues relating to my work. I try to do the right things for my mental health. I would say I'm a more anxious person in everyday life than I used to be but I find I can manage most things. Just not work. I really don't know the right way forward.

Thanks for reading

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Eyesopenwideawake · 16/09/2024 11:45

Can't comment on the medical aspects but it struck me that the way to deal with this would be to deal with the initial "terrible things happened in the school I worked at which coincided with terrible things happening in my personal life"

Trauma remains in your mind until it's released/lanced/understood. Until you do that all you can do is stick a plaster on it. Looks fine on the surface, festers underneath.

padampada · 16/09/2024 12:14

Thanks. When I'm well I feel like I've dealt with the past but I clearly haven't. Part of me thinks is this just teaching related which is a notoriously stressful job and I should just move on from it forever. Or is it any job with responsibility which is a bit of an issue as I am going to need to work!

I wonder what other peoples experiences of sertraline were. Is it a good long term solution?

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MsGoodenough · 16/09/2024 19:31

If it works for you then stay on it. I've been on citalopram for 10 years and no plans to come off it. (Although actually not working for me right now, but mainly it's been good)

MsGoodenough · 16/09/2024 19:31

I'm a teacher too and relate to the anxiety!

padampada · 16/09/2024 20:37

I suppose my options are to go back on medication, leave teaching for good or try something else. I'm tired of it coming back when I think ive found a way to cope!

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Eyesopenwideawake · 16/09/2024 20:59

padampada · 16/09/2024 20:37

I suppose my options are to go back on medication, leave teaching for good or try something else. I'm tired of it coming back when I think ive found a way to cope!

Or you could deal with the root cause, as I sorta mentioned!

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