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2024/25 SAD thread

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 02/09/2024 21:25

Link to last year’s thread

Hi again, I thought I’d start a new thread for this season of SAD 😭. It’s definitely starting to feel autumnal here 🥶.

If you’re new this year, please join us for tips to get through winter, chat and general moaning!

2023/24 SAD thread | Mumsnet

Hi again, I’m back for another year ☹️. I can’t see that anyone has started a SAD thread yet but today seems to be the day that it’s really kicking in...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/feeling_depressed/4919068-202324-sad-thread

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 10/02/2025 21:05

@EmeraldRoulette I honestly don’t know, it’s very strange! Safe to say they are not friends anymore and it’s made me feel a bit discombobulated since.

We were forecast nice weather last week but it ended up being cold, grey and windy 😭. At least it’s getting lighter in the mornings and evenings though!

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sunshineandshowers40 · 10/02/2025 22:50

So cold today, last week felt out we were over the worse.

lyingonthebeach · 11/02/2025 13:50

I was abroad for a couple of days. A kind of emergency dash for my mental health.

The soul sapping grey seems to be undoing the benefit 😥. Older friends say winters have changed and are greyer and more depressing .

Sending bright wishes

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 12/02/2025 19:57

@lyingonthebeach hope you had a lovely time and got to lie on the beach!

We were saying today at work, just a hint of warmth in the air would be nice! Just some clue that spring is on its way 🙁.

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lyingonthebeach · 15/02/2025 09:16

Another grey day 😩. My energy, focus and motivation seem to have gone the same way as my spirits ⬇. I can't be bothered to even move.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 15/02/2025 17:04

@lyingonthebeach same here. It’s like the colour has been drained from the world 😭. There’s not even any sun in the forecast 😭😭. I’m done too.

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Idratherbepaddleboarding · 15/02/2025 17:39

Oh and also I’m sick to death of being cold!!! 🤬🤬🤬

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EmeraldRoulette · 16/02/2025 16:35

This cold weather is eeeeevil

How anyone can like it is beyond me.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 17/02/2025 11:16

@EmeraldRoulette Yeo, I have yet another all day Teams training day and I’m sat under a blanket, with my dog, the heating on and a hot brew and my fingers are still all raynauldsy 😭. It’s grey again but I can see a tiny speck of blue appearing at the back of the house 🤞.

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lyingonthebeach · 17/02/2025 15:18

We've just had about 20 minutes of sunshine. Just seeing it stream in through the window made a tangible difference to my mood. I hope you all got a blast of brightness, however small 🌞

EmeraldRoulette · 17/02/2025 21:41

It was a bit sunny but too cold to benefit

I had to go out in it and walk to meetings after getting off the train. Not a long distance but being out in the cold is exhausting and don't get me started on the irritation of runny nose and watering eyes.

I took a cab back from the station to avoid being stupidly cold again by walking home and I'm too tired to concentrate so just been on here. I think it's meant to be less bitter by Wednesday.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 18/02/2025 17:37

It’s bitterly cold here too, I’m so sick of being cold (I’ve probably already said that)! Tomorrow is meant to be double figures though… and raining 🙈. I am enjoying it still being (just about) light at half 5 though!

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lyingonthebeach · 20/02/2025 08:49

It's slightly warmer here but so grey, wet and windy. I feel so low and listless. I've got to plaster on a smile for a zoom meeting but I just want to cry and go back to bed 😭

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 20/02/2025 17:11

It was hammering down this morning but OMG just as I got home from work and I took the dog out, the sun came out and I felt actual warmth! It was still really windy, but warmth!!

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lyingonthebeach · 21/02/2025 09:00

@Idratherbepaddleboarding Isn't it amazing that a few moments of warmth or blue sky can make such a noticeable difference? I say this to other people who really do not understand.

There is some - just some but I'll take it - sun forecast for next week so fingers crossed.

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 23/02/2025 09:45

@lyingonthebeach yes it really is. Yesterday was gorgeous. Bright sunshine, blue skies and a little warmth in the air. Enough for a hoodie but no coat. We went to the beach with the dog and just hung out for ages. The dog chased his ball and DH flew his new drone while I synthesised some vitamin D 😂.

Today it’s back to being hideous. Grey, raining and blowing a gale 😡😭.

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lyingonthebeach · 26/02/2025 09:38

Up, down, up, down......................! we had two fairly bright days and at moments we could feel real warmth in the sun. I felt so much better, and more positive and had more energy.

Today is horrible, gloomy, rainy and my mood has hit the floor (actually, it's burrowing under the floor).

I hope you are all ok. More sun is forecast for the weekend and that thought is keeping me warm.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/02/2025 20:45

Rumours abound that it won't be freezing or raining from tomorrow. Exciting stuff!

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 26/02/2025 21:56

We’ve had a few days of lovely sunshine but today has been all over the place, sunshine and rain. It’s beginning to feel slightly spring like though 🤞.

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JazzyContemporaneousNotes · 26/02/2025 22:29

I've been too depressed to post lately, and I've name changed, but here we are. Daylight at 5pm and noticably lighter at lunchtime - the light levels are really picking up :)

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 28/02/2025 12:38

@JazzyContemporaneousNotes what was your previous name? We’ve had so lovely, sunny days but today is freezing, foggy and grey 🙈.

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lyingonthebeach · 28/02/2025 17:48

Lovely sunny day here. A real boost.

Sorry you have had the grey @Idratherbepaddleboarding . Hopefully sun will come....and stay..... for all of us
🤞🌞

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 28/02/2025 17:56

@lyingonthebeach the sun came out about 2ish so the dog and I had a lovely 4pm walk on the field. It was warm enough for just a hoodie 🥰 (and jeans of course not literally just a hoodie 😂).

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lyingonthebeach · 02/03/2025 08:37

Another lovely sunny day 😎. I woke up naturally with sun streaming in to the room. I'm going to spend the whole day outside to get the maximum benefit. Let's hope this stays 🙏

EmeraldRoulette · 02/03/2025 22:28

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 28/02/2025 17:56

@lyingonthebeach the sun came out about 2ish so the dog and I had a lovely 4pm walk on the field. It was warm enough for just a hoodie 🥰 (and jeans of course not literally just a hoodie 😂).

Now I'mWondering where you are - I realise you might not want to say.

It's still bloody freezing here. There's probably about half an hour of the day where you wouldn't need a hat and gloves outside. I really do not do well with this prolonged cold. Good to have sun at the window, but I can't say it makes me want to get out more.

Sorry, I've bored you with this before, but I do errands on foot anyway. This is definitely not whether where I would add in extra walking for pleasure. I cannot wait for it to be warm. I am not convinced that the last two days have been the temperature that they said and we have had overnight frost.