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Don't know what to do.

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Mummyof32024 · 07/07/2024 14:55

I'm not sure really what I'm going to gain from the post but I haven't gotten anyone to talk to. I'm a single mum of 3 , currently going through heartbreak.
I wake up everyday wanting to not be here anymore,I don't have the guts to go through with it tho.
I had a lot of childhood trauma growing up and spent alot of time looking forward to being an adult and changing my life around and making it better and it's not turned out that way.

Iv been treated for depression and anxiety over the last 8 years and being honest all the medication has done is mask the problems. I have been under therapists and also a psychiatrist when I was pregnant with my youngest daughter. Nothing seems to be shifting this feeling . I look at my kids and wouldn't want them to ever go through what I'm feeling and if I was Gone there's no one for them to go to. I feel selfish for bringing them in to the world and them seeing me like this. Any past relationships iv had have been a disaster,eather domestic violence, mental abuse ect.
I'm sat here with no friends or real close family and 3 little girls who no I love them to piece's and I no love me to but I don't want to live this life anymore

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Helplessandheartbroke · 07/07/2024 16:02

Hey op. Sounds like you've got yourself stuck like we all have at times. Can you get in with any mums at school at all? That helped me make friends in my new area. That's one small step you could try?

Mummyof32024 · 07/07/2024 16:07

Iv managed to make a get to know a couple of mum's and one I did get on well with but she's just had a baby and pretty stressed out and I don't really want to throw my problems on top of her own.

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Helplessandheartbroke · 07/07/2024 16:13

@Mummyof32024 she might also be greatful for some company if she's home a lot with baby. Reach out.

Emilyjayne9421 · 07/07/2024 16:14

Hi, I’m sorry you’re going through a tough time. Are you still on antidepressants? You say you’re going through heartbreak, is this very recent?

DysonSphere · 07/07/2024 16:19

Have you talked to anyone about the heart break?

How long ago did this happen? So very sorry you're going through this.

How old are you and how old are your little ones?

Mummyof32024 · 07/07/2024 21:25

It's a very recent a heartbreak within the last week but it's been going down hill for the last year and also a very messy complicated situation.
I'm 30 and my girls are 11,7 and 5

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