My adult daughter who is 28 years old has been struggling mentally for years
. She was molested at 14 by my niece's husband, she didn't disclose this to me originally because she said she knew that the family wouldn't believe her.
She was raped anally at 16
When attending high school she started to self-harm mostly superficial
She graduated high school a year late due to to several residential treatments in Hs..
She was chronically depressed anxious
Fast forward to 2024, she has never had a job started college but couldn't complete it she doesn't have a driver's license and has had 12 suicide attempts her last one was last October.
She's currently in therapy which is EMDR with a professional therapist she is losing weight she has gone from 270 (10/2023 ) to 260 11/2023) to now 6/7/2024 ( 219) I've seen her throw food away and she goes to the showers after meals. She does sneak on the scale often when I've mentioned it to her bc her pants are almost 2 sizes too big ) even when she has on a belt it is noticeable that she's Lost the psych ward last year said she hadn't eaten a full meal since her admission at their faculty they obtained a court order consult for a feeding tube and even said she needed residential eating disorder treatment because she wasn't going to comply with their recommended treatment. She ate a little they released her she hasn't been back to their faculty they won't take her anymore I thought she was seeking attention but considering that she doesn't know that I know this leaves me to believe she might truly be in trouble ( Does she need residential treatment? She is on state insurance )
I know she wants to get better but her trauma is truly hindering her and that's not even half of the trauma she's been through
PSA *I have had access to her medical records but she has revoked any access that I had and no one else in the family has access ..