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So many feelings

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ivise · 27/05/2024 09:11

Hi, I am going to describe how I feel and I want you to guys help me see if I need to get help or is it normal? How do overcome this, where is the problem?
So basically most of the days I feel sad .My motivation is zero , for even simple things like housework.
Sometimes I try to mask these feelings m by going places or being with family, just keep my mind busy ,but again I can't do that always as money is an issue for us . Yesterday I noticed I was sad even when I wasn't alone . I don't know if it's me or the wrong people around me. I just feel this emptiness.
I am struggling to play with my child too. Struggling to be close to my partner , I don't even know if I love him anymore or is this just my feelings . I feel the only time I am a bit happier is when I try to mask things with what is not internal. I don't have friends that I would love to have a chat with. I have a close cousin but with her it's only gossip and having a drink, it gets exhausting,no deep conversation.
I don't know what I want , what I like . I just want to feel internally happy and not feel this sadness inside me !
I have lost my spark . I used to be quite outgoing,looked after myself . Now I am just this ball of sadness floating around . I have let myself down massively in looks too , I am only 30 years old .

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Kosenrufugirl · 27/05/2024 09:19

It sounds you suffer from depression. Can you contact your GP or Mind charity?

GoldfinchandPringle · 27/05/2024 12:30

I agree that you sound depressed OP. You will be amazed the difference antidepressants can make so please do see your GP and explain what you have said in your post.
Good luck - I know how it feels to be struggling through each day and there is help available to turn things around.

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