My dh is under the care of the local Community Mental Health team. He has had a new Caseworker for the last few months and this man, I suspect, continually forgets appointments. My dh and I sit waiting for ages which causes him extreme anxiety. Yesterday, he was due at 1pm and at 2pm I phoned his office. I was put through to him immediately and he apologised and said an emergency had cropped up. He has told us this "excuse" on a few occasions now. I can appreciate that emergencies do crop up when you are dealing with people with mental health issues but surely he could have either phoned or sent me a quick email, especially as he was obviously back in the office when he was due at our house. Is this usual behaviour for a Caseworker? Should we just accept that these things happen and think ourselves lucky that we get any support at all? Do other people's Caseworkers treat appointments so casually, saying they'll come at a certain time then not turn up and not get in contact?