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Feeling low after illness

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anotherOneNewname · 14/03/2024 15:12

Last year I was hospitalized with a really bad infection. The week prior I was too unwell to do anything but I did what I could to take care of my dc and not scare them when I felt like I was at deaths door.

I contacted the gp numerous times and unfortunately my infection was brushed off til it got to a point it couldn't be ignored. Even once in the emergency room I was dismissed. Eventually I was admitted and given treatment.
I witnessed a lot of chaos during my time there which doesn't help the way I'm feeling now.

Basically now it's been several months and since I have felt really low. I was so scared I would die and leave my dc. All drs I have spoken to in my follow up appointments have confirmed I was seriously ill so this is no exaggeration.

I am now just living life scared. Scared I will get another infection or just scared I will die. Scared of having to leave my dc to go into hospital again and witness what I did before.

I cry a lot. I had a cold recently and broke down when I was home alone, scared it would lead to some type of infection.

I try to exercise by jogging and simple cardio, I eat healthier generally try to be healthy.

I am not who I was before my infection. I look at pictures from before and can't believe how I was so happy and not scared of everything.

I have only really wrote this to get it off my chest. If anyone does reply I am really great full. Any similar experiences and if you ever made it through the other side.

OP posts:
Eyesopenwideawake · 14/03/2024 17:00

It's natural to feel scared after such a serious illness. However try to look at it the other way around; you survived. You fell ill, you were treated and you recovered. Yes, there were errors along the way that could have been avoided but the outcome was positive in the end. Prior to this have you been ill or in hospital before?

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