Sorry, I know noone can answer this question, but I am worried about my son. He lives at home still (he is late 20s, works, earns well, contributes to household, etc) and has been acting very strangely today. Flew off the handle at very little at lunchtime, stormed off, refused to come to table and hasn't eaten all day. Dh and I have tried to talk to him but he has refused to engage with us. All we have gleaned is that he says he has been in a bad mood for a few days (but we didn't notice anything amiss until this lunchtime), and he does not feel physically unwell (but he normally has a huge appetite and I cooked his favourite lunch today so the fact that he has not eaten since breakfast is itself concerning). We have no idea what is going on, no idea why he might be feeling low, he has not given us any indication.
Dh has gone to bed now but I can't sleep for worrying about what is going on in my son's head. It is just so weird. Ds has always had social problems (probably on the autism spectrum though he has never had a diagnosis). He has a good job, as I've already said, but he works entirely from home and does not mix socially with anyone outside the family. We are wondering if he has had a work set back but doesn't like to tell us. He has never been able to talk about his feelings and leaves the room if anyone else talks about theirs. It makes it very hard to dig beneath his exterior and understand what is going on.
I know noone can help really. I just needed to write something down. I am so unsettled by his behaviour today and scared he will do something stupid.