Hi my fellow mumsnetters, throw away account because the witches flying monkeys are here, my mum is actively trying to ruin my life, first she came for my marriage with all her imaginative lies, venom and sickness and now she’s trying to come for my parenting, to be honest I don’t care anymore what she says, I got kids too feed bloody hell. I was speaking to a dear friend of mine who happens to be a therapist and she asked me a question, do you resemble your dad, and it made me think! Because I do quite a lot, and I’m not being vain but my dad seems to be ageing gracefully or whatever, and I just realised maybe that’s why she’s always hated me so much, I remind her of him. To make matters worse, as i experience the blessing of ageing each year it probably gets more and more apparent too! Help she’s honestly bat shit crazy and will emerge herself to hospital if I drop my low contact or cry on social media, she’s elderly and looks frail and vulnerable and I’m sick of this. It’s too late to wish I had a healthy parent as I’ve accepted this but it’s so painful, she’s using social media it’s her new tool for attention seeking, she’s been put up her in hospital saying she’ll die, why me, why am I linked to her?