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Typed therapy

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Suchalonggap · 17/11/2023 22:01

Has anyone used this service and has it been useful?

My anxiety has been getting a bit out of control but I couldn't get referred via work and the GP could only prescribe medication which I'm not ready for so I was really pleased to find the service.

I found the first assessment great, I was then referred to a therapist that I have had a few sessions with.

I'm feeling disheartened. The conversation doesn't flow, they ask a question and then I'll give a very complete answer but usually get little back, we just move on to the next subject. The first session felt like I was pouring my heart out and getting nothing back which made me feel a bit vulnerable.

There is also always such a delay in response. Yesterday it was 4 minutes every time from the moment I messaged to the moment I got a response. So we don't get to cover much in an hour and I find myself getting distracted as it's a long time to wait for a response.

I appreciate I am having therapy for a reason and am probably over-emotional/over sensitive. And maybe the delay is a connection issue?

But I am not sure how to bring it up or improve the situation, I am feeling disengaged but I really need help!

Any advice welcome!

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idontlikealdi · 17/11/2023 22:03

I've never come across it, is it legit? As I'm not just ai ts look my back to you?

Bumdrops · 17/11/2023 22:07

Therapy is about the relationship with the therapist as much as the strategies you learn etc
typed therapy sounds crap to me
I would only go for face to face or video sessions

Suchalonggap · 17/11/2023 22:15

Yes it's a NHS service. After the first session (different person) I thought it was great for me. I couldn't bring myself to see someone face to face and that would probably be anxiety inducing in itself.

The first person responded quickly, it felt like a normal conversation. She always acknowledged what I'd just said, there was a good flow.

This time it's quite abrupt, the questions are quite unclear and I feel like a nuisance asking for clarification, it makes me feel even worse about myself!

Urgh I don't think I can face another one.

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AreYouShittingMe · 18/11/2023 11:54

It maybe that it's the therapist rather than the mode of therapy if you found the first session more helpful? You are within your rights to ask for a different therapist or a different mode of therapy if this isn't working for you.
It can be harder to 'gel' with a therapist via text only, as you are can't see them or hear their tone of voice.
Hope you get sorted

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