I feel like telling the world to f#ck off.

[Lovemusic82]

Anxiety, ADHD, perimenopausal etc…etc…
At the moment I just feel like I p#SS everyone off and no one wants to be around me, all my so called friends and a guy I have been dating are treating me like crap, ignoring me, not really being there anymore when they were before. I must be a really bad friend because no one wants to be near me. I’m usually bubbly and happy and I’m nice to everyone so I don’t understand why suddenly people don’t want to be around me. I was stood up at the weekend from someone who last week was telling me they loved me, now they are ignoring me and a friend cancelled on me with a pretty awful excuse. I don’t know if my anxiety and over thinking are making me believe I’m the one that must be a rubbish person? I have just started HRT so I don’t know if that’s making me feel worse than I should? I just want to tell everyone to f#ck off.

Not sure what I want out of this post. I tried posting on the ND board but got no replies.

I haven't been diagnosed with anxiety or ADHD and am not perimenopausal ...... however I often feel like telling the world to f#ck off!
I don't consider it to be a 'me' problem 🙂

Sometimes the world demands more than we can give at the time, sometimes shit things happen, sometimes shit people happen sometimes we need to put ourslves first.

Sometimes it's all right to just feel f#cked off when shit happens

Thank you.
I’m usually quite a tough person but I think I’m a bit of a walk over when it comes to friends, maybe I need new friends and to stay away from men for the foreseeable future. I always seem to be the one supporting other people in their hour of need but none of them are there for me. I struggle making friends, most of my friends are men, I used to think it was easier that way but now I’m thinking it’s not. I seem to have lost 3 or 4 friends in a year which is why I think it’s me that’s the problem.

At the moment I only want to be friends with the cat 😬, everyone else can f#ck off.

I think that may be a good choice 😊

When you start to feel like that, it's often because you need to stop living your life the way you're living it, and just stop and think about whether you're happy living like that or not.

Sometimes Life piles shit on our plate to give us a kick up the backside!

And if you want to be friends with a cat, you're a fabulous person! Excellent choice 😁x

I'm sorry - that last post was worded clumsily!

I meant 'and if you want to be friends with just the cat, I think you're a fabulous person for that! Excellent choice 😁'

(because cat people are my kind of people!) x