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My dp got sectioned

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PinkChampange · 01/11/2023 16:09

That's it really and I don't know what to do. I don't even know why I'm posting. I just feel so upset, worries, confused. I don't know what I want from this post either. Just needed to tell someone I suppose...

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SJL2409 · 01/11/2023 16:47

Hey! It's OK, I'm here if you need a chat. Everything will be OK xx

cheerypip · 01/11/2023 17:01

I have had this experience. If this is the first time, right now it probably feels very scary and confusing.

First step - Take a very deep breath and understand that someone else is now taking responsibility for him. If that was on your shoulders until now, that weight has been lifted, at least for the time being, so see it as some respite.

I am sure you'll have lots of questions . Rethink and Mind both have lots of helpful information on their website about being sectioned - it will help if you know which Section he is held under as it differs.

Wishing you both strength for the days and weeks ahead.

blackcandle · 01/11/2023 22:34

in some cases being sectioned is the only way to be assessed by the right professionals and get helps. Hope things will get better before too long. 💐

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PinkChampange · 02/11/2023 00:44

Thank you for getting back to me.
I'm going to check out those charities mentioned.

I still can't process anything but I've chatted to him today. Im allowed to visit Friday so im hoping to talk through a lot. Obviously im going to be supportive but as stated he is in the right place to get the help he needs.

I think it's hit me more than him. I have no idea how long he'll be in for. Thanks again for the replies ❤️ unfortunately I can't talk ti family and friends as they've never really agreed with us being together.

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Ilovedogs1 · 03/11/2023 15:42

Hey everyone. Long time sufferer of OCD/intrusive thoughts. Posted here quite a bit over the years. My OCD manifests as fears that I may have done something wrong in the past but can't remember it. From this and other online forums I think this is quite a common form of OCD and the more people talk about mental health the more people seem to admit to these thoughts. I'm in recovery from a very bad episode earlier this year. Mostly managing it well. But today thoughts coming at me pretty much constantly. Then randomly this afternoon a thought of 'what if I slept walked in the night and went out and did something bad'. Popped in my head. I know I need to accept uncertainty and let the thoughts be but I can't bear the possibility . When I properly think about it let's face it it's a possibility for everyone but obviously not probable. I'm determined to get better but will I ever be able to properly overcome this . I'm fed up of feeling anxious and unsure half of my life.
I am already on medication. X

Balloonsandroses · 03/11/2023 16:25

@PinkChampange just wanted to say being sectioned can be a good thing - the bad thing is being ill enough to need it but being sectioned is a route to care and treatment. I got sectioned earlier this year - though it felt horrendous at the time it was the start of recovery and after three months in hospital I’m now so so much better, back home with my family and back at work. I hope your DP gets better soon and please look after yourself too.

Ilovedogs1 · 03/11/2023 17:20

So sorry everyone. Clearly my post wasnt supposed to be on this thread.

RMNandthensome · 03/11/2023 17:51

Depending on what section he is on and the reason for being sectioned, will roughly depend on how long he is in hospital for. If a Section 2 it is up to 28 days and this will be for assessment/treatment. If he is doing well in this period and mental health stabilises with or without medication he may well be discharged at any time with support from home treatment team if needed or referred to a CMHT for longer support through the community, or if not, they will if he does not agree to stay as informal put him on a Section 3 for treatment until such time as he is doing well enough to be discharged. hope that helps a little.

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PinkChampange · 04/11/2023 10:07

Thank you everyone. I've visited him now. He's doing alright but not sure how long he's being kept in for.
But I video chat him every night I'm able to visit him again next week.

He's allowed out during the day so I take him out to get some normality. He just goes back for meds and the evening. Reading all your comments have helped thank you

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blackcandle · 04/11/2023 19:33

You both need a lot of support and be strong. It s hard but try to “let go”.

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PinkChampange · 05/11/2023 21:50

Update he's now told me he has ants spade and does t want to be with me 😞

Of course I'm still going to support him but I now feel crushed. Does anyone have any advice on how I can support him while dealing with this? He's been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. I've done some research we've been together 10 years 😞💔

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Ilovedogs1 · 05/11/2023 22:52

Sorry no advice but sending a big hug. X

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