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Think I might need help

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Hexcodes · 12/07/2023 21:19

Hi,

I've had a bad day. Never really had mental health problems before, a bit of minor anxiety but nothing debilitating.

Things have been building over the last few months though, been feeling increasingly anxious and low, sort of flat and unmotivated. And today I woke feeling a level of anxiety I've never felt before. It came to a head half way through the day, I work from home and just fell to pieces. Nothing really triggered it, was a bit frustrated with a colleague.

I could hardly breathe and cried for hours, I hit my hand into the wall and slapped myself across the face. I had to message my boss and let him know as I couldn't work the rest of the day. I've been sat on the sofa in a bit of a daze since, wondering where to go from here. I've never hurt myself before and it felt quite good in the moment. Like the physical pain was a good distraction.

I was put on amitriptyline 10mg for migraines in April, and the doctor recently increased my dose to 20mg about a month ago. I know these are used as an antidepressant in higher levels so not sure if maybe these are causing issues, doesn't seem likely at 20mg

I also have hypothyroidism, which I know is linked to depression.

I think I probably need to talk to the doctor. No idea if I can/should work tomorrow. Not sure what I'm looking for in writing this. Guess I just feel a bit lost and scared

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DustyLee123 · 12/07/2023 21:20

How old are you ?

Hexcodes · 12/07/2023 21:32

39

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PinedApple · 12/07/2023 22:28

Sorry you've had a bad day. It is scary feeling out of control of your emotions.

The physical pain thing is a way to help cope with big feelings but obviously don't recommend doing it, but just wanted to reassure you it is a 'normal' reaction in some ways. It focuses your mind on something else and more urgent.

It could well be the medication change. Definitely speak to your Gp when you can and try and get some rest. Are you on your own or can you talk to someone irl?

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Nicetiesandwhatnot · 12/07/2023 22:41

Sorry to hear that you are having a bad day.

Can you take a few days off work? I think the emotional build up can affect us massively. And when you are down even say to day disagreements can hit us hard.

Did you have dinner?

Do you want to chat here for a bit of just putting things out rather than keeping it in ? Absolutely no pressure...no need to share if you don't feel like.

PinedApple · 16/07/2023 11:20

How are things today @Hexcodes? Flowers

chittyshittyohffs · 16/07/2023 11:37

Perimenopause?

Hexcodes · 18/07/2023 13:51

Thank you for your replies.

I went to the doctor and broke down a bit, he was really understanding and said we need to rule out possible physical causes first. So had blood tests and an ecg. Waiting for results of those now.

I've also been having some stomach problems for a few months (pain, diarrhea etc) not sure if that's being fueled by anxiety or the other way around. So will be looking into this more as well.

He said one step at a time but if it is a mental health issue there are things we can do. Feels like such a long road right now though.

I tried to work today but as it involves a lot of customer interaction I completely froze up. It feels so stupid, I've never had a problem with difficult customers or anything but feel completely unable to cope right now. I tried to go out at the weekend with the kids and do something fun but felt tearful the entire time. So unlike me.

I don't think this is perimenopause, I have a pituitary tumor and had my hormone levels tested last year (unless they can suddenly change?)

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