@Usernumber637373639273719 hey! I have had anxiety all my life and only started taking Sertaline a year or so ago (I'm now in my mid-thirties) when I had a bit of a mental breakdown and hit a peak with my OCD. I'd done so much work in therapy over the years and wasn't ever planning to take meds, I was just determined to do it by myself. I'm not sure why in hindsight, maybe it was a control thing, maybe I thought it made me weak somehow. I was worried they'd change my personality, which is nonsense as they don't impact that at all but I still worried about it. What if I wouldn't be "me" anymore? What if it was right in some weird way that I had this horrible anxiety because it at least meant I was being authentic? However, I got to a point where I was really struggling (I'd always managed to hold down my job etc but suddenly was struggling to cope with much else, was crying constantly and paranoid with severe OCD) and realised I needed some extra help, and my family told me I needed it too.
All I can say is, Sertraline has changed my life. I cannot believe I spent so many years struggling with anxiety when I could have been taking it and making my life a whole lot easier. I regret so very much the years that I could have been taking them, I wonder what I might have done, what I might have enjoyed or tried if I hadn't been so crippled with anxiety. I do think they have changed me but I think they've made me MORE me, the me I'm meant to be, without the crippling anxiety. Rather than taking something away from who I am, I feel they add something I was missing. Obviously now I'm in a better headspace, it's easier to see this side of things!
I'm not saying it's going to cure every problem you've had but I will say that even the regular day to day things that I always struggled with to some degree (and just thought that's how it was for me) are so much easier. It has made my life so much better, I feel it's given me something that has been missing my whole life.
I'm on a low dose (50mg) and have little to no side effects. I have found I sweat more and that the sweat smelled more than before (I wasn't a sweaty person at all before) but I buy men's deodorant now and my partner assures me I don't smell. I would take that 1000 times over with the benefits the drugs have given me!
The time it takes to take effect is different for each person so, if it were me, I'd just dive in and the adjustment period will soon be over.
I hope that helps add to your pro/con list :)