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Feeling down.

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DentHyg · 15/06/2023 21:10

Hi,

I just wanted to get this off my chest.. I feel really down at the moment.
I live with my boyfriend but he goes on xbox with his friends twice a week, out at a climbing gym once a week, and works long hours.
I like my own space but I think this is hitting me hard as, in honesty, I've been wanting to get married for a while now (he knows & says he does too & has a plan, but that's yet to happen). FYI we have been together almost 8 years, living together for 3.
We have also been trying to conceive for a while now with no luck.
I just feel like nothing is going to happen for me.

I have tried to discuss spending more time with him & the most recent response was 'there are 7 days in a week' when I asked to spend more time together.
Makes him sound awful, he really isn't he just thinks very black & white & isn't a very emotional person.

Anyway, I hope I'm not just being taken for a fool & what he says about life together, marriage, kids etc is genuine.

Sorry for the long drawl.. just need some love atm! X

OP posts:
Eyesopenwideawake · 16/06/2023 08:17

Here you are ❤

You'll probably get some good advice if you ask the mods to move this to relationships.

cassiatwenty · 16/06/2023 16:16

@Eyesopenwideawake

❤💞 For you as well, one of my fav posters, wise and kind, always considering posters and being thoughtful

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