Do you agree with pornography in relationships? please read it all before commenting ladies😔I just can't get my head around it... it makes me feel so insecure when he does it. He says he doesn't but he does, I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years(15-21) roughly and he was 21 when I started at 15, I have 2 children with him had to flee to a refuge to be able to leave. I guess I was young so this is all I know from relationships He used to masterbste over my friends photos(half naked) then leave it on for me to see, he used to watch porn in the same bed while I was sleeping and he'd get off. He used to text those chat things on the tele, he used to get off over woman in films he got off watching me being passed out from alcohol etc and obviously a lot more happened not in-relation to pornography. I have also got bipolar and he used to mess with my head on purpose. My current partner ive been with 3 years and we have a child together he's lovely and i know he would never hurt me in anyway shape or form he does everything for us but I can't even watch films with him with woman in it, not even music videos and I know eventually its going to ruin it because its pathetic i am on medication for bipolar and its going great but somethings are still stuck. Porns a nono, I get suspicious everytime I leave the house or when I'm in bed... when he looks at other girls on social media with barely anything on everyone I'm out and see him looking at another girl I close up hold it in then it just torches my own mind, if I tell him... we end up having a disagreement because he says he's not but I'm certain he did(men can look at other woman) i know its normall, I'm so insecure I shower then can't come out the bathroom without make up on. I get up earlier than him so I can put make up on, I worry about far to much wjen I comes down to my appearance i just don't know how I get over the last relationship. It goes round and round in my head. I need to get over this and I don't know how